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writes:so my ex boyfriend who lives down the street seems like he's looking for a more friends with benefits approach with us. and i've never done anything with a guy because i want everything to be special and he tries really hard even when i say no. but i kind of want to, but kinda not because I dont know what it would be like. i mean he's only really tried to finger me and i want to know how it is but i don't want it to go too far. should i let him? if i do what will it be like? or should i just not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your answers, it's helped me alot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): well, I mean in the question itself you were hesitating.. in my opinion I'd say don't... you're right to think wait for the right guy.You're young and curious, but don't let it cloud your judgement - is this ex just looking for sex? No offence but it sounds like it! Wait for someone who you deserve and who will respect your wishes. Never be pressured into anything, ok?
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reader, DIANACM +, writes (22 June 2009):
First of all its looks like you are still very young for that. Second just wait for the right guy i made a mistake like that i was 17 or 18 years old and even thought i am married i regret it because my hubby the way he is he should of deserved everything. even though he doesnt care about my past.Just wait you will see what i mean do go over the line util you fine you true love..
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (22 June 2009):
 Just don't. You'll probably only get hurt in the end.
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reader, jakeee +, writes (22 June 2009):
DONT!! he is your ex meaning he just wants to get what he couldn't when he has with you, trust me after you guys do it he will not bother ask about you, honestly I think you should wait for a secial person it will feel a lot better..goodluck!
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (22 June 2009):
 I don't think you should feel pressured to have sex with him! If you don't want to - simply don't do it. Don't let him brainwash you into thinking, you will be together in the end, that he loves you, or it will be so great.Your right, it should be special. I understand you are curious, and you want to explore sexuality, but wait until you are in love with someone! Don't lose it to a friend with benefits who doesn't love you. These guys only want one thing - and once you give it them - they walk away.No means no, sister! and let him know that you mean business!!Take carexxxx
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