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writes:I've just started chatting to this girl who seems to like me and I like her. This may sound a strange thing to do on a first meeting, but would it be acceptable if I asked her on a ghost walk? If not, what do you think and where would readers take their would-be partners? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I messaged her friend, and she messaged back; 'that is very sweet of you...' and gave me some suggestions of where to take her. The zoo, or for a meal, were two suggestions.
Shall I send her a text or ring her when she gets back from Egypt tomorrow?
Also, I don't want to jump the gun, but how do you know if a girl has got a boyfriend; would she mention him or something? The fact she joked with me about going to Italy and me taking her, is that a sign that she hasn't?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell, I've messaged three of her female friends!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnother question: Sould I choose one of her male friends or female friends?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe has just gone to Egypt for a week - and I want to ask her out when she gets back, because I've missed opportunities with other girls I like before, but not this time!
She has got a number of friends on Facebook, should I do some digging, and find out more about what she likes?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe texted last night; she said she likes Italian history, I said "I can't take you to Italy' She said "That's a shame, I was looking forward to going to Venice'. I said 'We'll work up to that.' She said 'Lol fair enough'. We were too tired to text aymore after that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'd like to something a bit different from what other boyfriends may have done, but if I can't find one, dinner will be okay
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, that's out, because she doesn't do supernatural stuff!
Next is history- there are lots of historical walks where I live - although she says she likes cultural history. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've got to hurry, because the walk is on Friday!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): This seems good enough to me, my parents even went on a ghost walk for their honeymoon!
Good excuse to huddle up when scared too ;)
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reader, ladydela  +, writes (22 June 2009):
 i think its a wonderful idea the reason i think that is because :she might get scared which will give you a chance to your arm around her 2 it will show her that you are brave and 3 well it might be a change from the old boring movie date so yea i think you should ask her on a ghost walk
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I think you're right. I'll find out if she likes ghosts though, but there'll be quite a few people on the ghost walk - people say it isn't very sppoky though!
Also, I've got a disability - cerebral palsy - so it can't be something really physical
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (22 June 2009):
 I'd love it ;)
Plus if she gets scared she can snuggle up to you- sorted!
Just dont you get scared! That would not look good.
Plus Id ask her before hand if she wants to go, as some people hate things like that!
Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'll find out - how shall I word it?
I don't want to be another 'drink or movie' kind of guy, and we've never met before, so I wouldn't call it a date
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (22 June 2009):
Ok so going on a ghost walk is not what you would consider the norm, but being different to the norm doesnt make it a bad thing as such.
Do you know if shes into ghosts and all that type of thing? If so, then it might be a good idea. If shes not into that type of thing, then probably a bad idea.
Typical first dates usualy include, dinner, lunch, movies, coffee, drinks etc.
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