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writes:My girlfriend has agreed to give me a handjob. The only problem is, as everyone knows, guys ejaculate. Do I tell her to stop when that happens cause I feal like its rude making her have to clean up herself. I know its a weird question, but felt like it's an important one.
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reader, JSBach  +, writes (17 July 2009):
Just grunt something like "I'm gonna cum, don't stop". This will give her a chance to get out of the way and point your penis in a safe direction. It would be a most unsatifactory hand job if she didn't finish it off.
Etiquette does require that you should wipe it off your belly yourself when you're finished, unless she volunteers to do it. Have a box of tissues ready so she doesn't have to go off searching for them while your lying there with cum dribbling off onto the bed.
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (25 June 2009):
 I think you should talk to her about it and see if she would feel comfortable with you ejectlating on her on not. Talking to her about this may make her more comfortable about doing it. Try and be open and honest about stuff like that and it will be much easier.
Hope this helps =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): Honestly, ask her to finish it as a blow job. No messy clean up and you get the extra pleasure of a little bit of a b.j. at the end. You'll just have to tell her when you're close.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (22 June 2009):
 Honestly most girls aren't too bothered about this. Keep clear of their clothes, their eyes, their hair and their furniture and you're likely fine.
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reader, jakeee +, writes (22 June 2009):
Well you have to talk about this with her first..if she is comfortable with it then go for it, but try not to ejaculate too fast...one way to prevent this is by telling her to stop for a few seconds when you feel your going to cum...goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): Hey, i understand your situation. You don't have to stop her because 1.its hard for you to stop when you are coming, 2. may be she want s to see that (you don't know) 3. It stangthens your attitude. So do it! I'm telling you from my own experience/. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): Ask her this.
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