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writes:The reason I'm in this beacuse my fiance for 6 years just dumped me I'm so lost. I move out the but still talk to him
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (22 June 2009):
 hun you've lost someone you thought you were going to be with for a very long time life infact and it will be harder to move on if you're not going to cut the contact with him as well. it's nice i know to keep talking to him but it'll keep giving you that bit of hope that something else will become and perhaps maybe he'll come back to you and want everything you guys had before/again.
best thing to do with him for now is just cut contact tell him you need some time to yourself to gather your throughts and help yourself pull through this see some girl mates and have girly nights and girly chats and stuff.
don't let this knock your confidence let this make you a stronger person and better person (i'm not saying you're not a great person i just hope you get what i mean) then when you feel ready to let him back into your life do so but as friends and hope that you don't fall for something you fear won't ever happen again.
Hope this helps.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (22 June 2009):
The only way to try and move on is simply doing that: moving on. That means no talking to him! Don't talk to him on the phone, thru texting, thru email, thru snail mail...nada. And it is by all means not easy at all. You have to take it day-by-day. You're going to still think of him constantly and get the urge...but don't do it! Right after a breakup you can't go to being friends, the wounds are still fresh and you still have feelings for him. The best thing to do is surround yourself with friends and family and getting involved in things you like to do or trying new things that you haven't gotten around to trying. I know it sounds exhausting trying to preoccupy your time, but trust me girl, it's better than sitting around at home crying and deciding whether or not you should speak to him. BE STRONG! Eveything happens for a reason.
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