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My boyfriend first had sex at 8, is this normal?

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Question - (22 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and i were having a conversation on our sexual past, what age we lost our virginity at etc. He told me that he started putting his penis in girls as young as 7 or 8 and actually took a girl into his room at 8 and tried full blown sex but obviously he wasnt able to come. He then lost it properly where he came at about ten. Is this normal? I mean i was flddling about with boys and kissing them at 8 but a penis never went anywhere near me til i was almost 15!! Another thing as well is he slept with his stepmother when they were both very drunk a few years ago, only she fell in love with him from it and he wanted to forget it. Ive met her and to be frank, shes not attractive. Is this all normal behaviour?? I dont know what to think of it! It all seems so strange!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009):

don't take this the wrong way but be carefull in this relationship, he obviously has lots of emoitional baggage and problems sex wise and relationship wise

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009):

It is deifinatly early... But it can happen. A lot of the time children don't really understand it, but if they hear about it they're going to be curious.

My ex had the same kind of experience when he was six. I thought it was vey disturbing.

I think that the fact he has slept with his step-mother is even more disturbing though... Especially if she claims to have fallen in love with him. It terrible that she is still with his father.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009):

Woah!...8?!...I have an 8 yr old brother...who still plays with his Star Wars figures!....I think that isnt normal at all!..Im 15 and Ive never even kissed a guy yet!...Well the past is the past...enjoy the future and dont be worried about his past,whats done IS done!

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (22 June 2009):

starfairy agony auntSeems a bit early, but I guess everyone develops at their own age...I had my first kiss at 14 and lost my virginity at 16, so maybe I was a late starter lol.

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