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writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. we get a long very well we hardly ever fight. the only serious fights we get in is when i catch him texting this girl that i have been insecure about for about a year now because she likes him and they text and he knows it bothers me because i have told him. i feel like when he talks to her he is giving her hope. plus i have caught them flirting while we were on a break before so after i told him to stop talking to her, he told me he did yet ive caught them texting about 4 times now. this last time i caught him i got so mad i nearly broke up with him. he basically begged me to stay with him and told me he loved me and that he doesnt like her he just feels bad for her yadayadayada. should i believe he has no feelings towards her? do you think im overreacting?
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 This is bang out of order. If he loved you that much then he would have stopped texting this girl as soon as you told him it bothered you. He obviously clearly knows that him and her texting is affecting your relationship, therefore why isn't he stopping it? Give him one more chance, explain to him again that he best not be texting her and inform him of the consequences - that he'll lose you for good. If you catch him doing it again, then leave him. There is nothing more you can do.xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): am understand you beacause we are in the same boat.He likes the girl and does not want to forget about her cause of reasons best known to himself.In this case trust dies because he still texts her even after you told him how you feel.My girlfriend is doing the same thing but always says she loves me,but if what she says is true why do i come second in this case cause she wont just forget this guy.when you love someboby you make sure that all the things making them sad are done away with but if one wants to hang to thing that upset the partner then it means love wise you are not meeting half way,which is very important
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reader, Sabrena  +, writes (17 February 2011):
Is txting all u know about doesnt sound good anyways tell him its either u or her simple as that.
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