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writes:I am married, and we get along and everything is going good but before I was dating my husband. I had this relationship with a guy that was older than me he was like 20 yrs older than me, and we were together for like 2 yrs but I had to leave him because I knew my parents wouldn't had accept me dating someone that could have been my dad. So I left him because I didn't want problems with my parents. So I started going out with this guy which is my husband now we where going out for like 1 yr when I moved in with him and 3 months later we got married we have been married for like a yr now, and everything was going good. I thought I had forgotten my ex which I hadn't really since since like a yr. My husband all of a sudden wanted to get into takewondo classes and well my ex does that, so I told my husband that I had a friend that teaches taekwondo and he decide to go and check it out. So he liked it and now he is going and I go with him I just see him train..but now that I started seeing my ex there I can't take him out of my head., I am constantly thinking of him. And sometimes I wish I had done things differently. Is there any way I can stop feeling all this mix emotions?? I really love my husband and wouldn't like to hurt him..BTW we are constantly fighting I get mad for every little thing (which I know I am wrong and its not right) I have tried to not get mad over stupid little things but I can't and I don't know why..Do you know why all of the sudden I am like that. Well I wasn't like this before, Before I wouldn't even get mad at all, but ever since I got married with my husband everything change (Well I change) I get mad really easy and for stupid things..can anyone help me out..please I have tried so hard not to get mad for every little thing I just can't..Hope anyone can help me out...thanks..
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (17 February 2011):
It seem like you love your ex. And you got married the guy your parents wanted you to marry. Now you are blaming him (your husband) and that's why you get mad at him easily. And you subconsciously figured out the way to be in contact with the person you love.
I don't reckon that what I think about your situation will help you. But it can throw some light to it.
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