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36-40,
*zeru
writes:Hi, I had girlfriend, we started off on a very fast pace wanting to do everything in the shortest possible time. I thought that she was the girl i needed until i realised that she did not care for me like i cared for her cause she could not text nor call me if i dont do it first. Because i loved her so much and i didnt want to lose her i was willing to do anything to keep her that i tempted twice to make love to her because she wanted to.In the first two attempts am the one who held back because of my love for her, i didnt want to do it because i could but because i loved her and she loved me back. Unfortunatly the third time it happened i was ready to go with the flow then something in my mind stopped me. After the incident she called me, saying we should break up because we almost had sex.I accepted her proposal and stayed away, now she is always calling me and telling me that she loves me but when i asked her if we could get back together she said she loves me as a brother. what should i do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Well if she said it like that then she obviously loves you but not in the way you hope. She may love you as a friend but nothing more. Therefore i think the best thing you can do is take time out and ask yourself could you handle being just friends with her and watch as she gets with other men or even settles down with a man in the future?
It is very hard for ex's to remain friends as usually one person always wants more and they are keeping there wounds open to more hurt. Therefore i think the best thing you can do is tell her it would be to hard to be only friends with her as you love her so much and want to be with her. The best option for you would be to take time away from her so that you can mend your heart and get over her. Goodluck hunny.
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