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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:ok so erm heres my situation ive been dating this guy for bout 5 month hes dead nice and im really into him the thing is he doesnt let on how he feels and i have the feeling hes seeing other women but when im with him he refers to himself as "ur boyfriend" (meaning my boyfriend) and some of the stuff he comes out with is like he wants to be with me but he isnt sure how to persue the relationship as !! we have been sleeping with each other but not every time we see each other for me i feel like i want more from him but hes said things "like a want to be with you" and hes also said "i see you as a mate" so im kinda confused we talk to each other every day but i jus dont feel like hes into me anymore can any one enlighten me on what to do ? xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, cncited04  +, writes (18 February 2011):
Hi!! I may be a little younger than u but I'm n a difficult situation that started out that way. From my experience n it, it sounds like he's the same type of guy that I'm dealing with. He doesn't let his feelings show but trust me they just may be there. Pay attention to the signs (something I should have done). He's just not the type to talk about his feelings which is ok just don't go out on a limb and see somebody else (that would be a huge mistake). Just give it some more time, if its meant to be then it will be! :) Don't pressure him, go along with his pace. Yea sometimes it can be irritating but let him lead the way but at the same time don't just settle! I say give it another 6 mths or so and if ya'll haven't made it official, sit him down and have a serious convo about your feelings and where u would like things to be. But be careful to much may make him wanna stop and weigh his options. GOOD LUCK!
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