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anonymous
writes: Okay, so there is the guy i've liked for over two years. We went out for a little bit last year, but we broke up for multiple reasons. We still had feelings for each other, but he moved an hour away. We still keep in contact, but i haven't seen him in a while. We were texting a while ago, and then he asked me for pics. I sent some, but nothing bad. And the same for him. Now he doesn't talk to me, and it's really awkward. I don't understand. I though he liked me?
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (19 February 2011):
Ok. Let it go. The best that could happen with this boy has already happened. Lose contact with him and look for someone who deserves you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe were texting, and he said he had to go and promised we would talk the next day, but we haven't since.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (17 February 2011):
You are young so I will explain something about men that you need to understand. Men like to "chase". By this, I mean they like to try to get a girl to like them, to go out with them, to go to bed with them, etc. They like to try to win a girl over. Think of them like cats with a toy. If you just give them what the want like that instead of making them work for it... there is no challenge, they get bored and lose interest. Its more complicated than that, and I'm sorry this guy is being distant. But boys respect you when you tell them no. So sometimes even when they ask you for something, they will like it when you stand your ground and say no.
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (17 February 2011):
If you have changed (physically) since the last time you saw him, that could explain the issue.
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reader, Sabrena +, writes (17 February 2011):
Maybe he does like u and he just been busy what do u mean he doesnt talk to u did he stop answering ur calls/txt or emails (however u communicate) or did u not contact him jst assuming he would? Its always good to think positive unless he hasnt called for ages
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