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writes:i'm 13, soon 14. i broke up with my boyfriend in november (we only lasted a month but liked each other a lot) and now its february. we didnt break up cause of relationship problems or anything, its cause something else not really important. we kept liking each other for about one more month and then we stopped talking. i thought i got over him but every time i see him at school or see he posted a new status or someone talks about him or see a picture of us or anything like that i get weird feelings like if i wasnt over him yet.. we havent talked in 2 months so it would be weird if i talk to him out of no where.. i just cant seem to get over him.. what should i do?
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reader, Jackalus  +, writes (17 February 2011):
I as you can see am a guy and I can sort of see how u feel I am 14 almost 15 so I can relate you need to keep not talking to him he seems an alright guy from what I have heard but there are plenty more fish in the sea and he seems to just be one that you have to get over one way or another
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reader, Eilish +, writes (17 February 2011):
 Awwwwww bless. I've been in this situation and it's horrible. I think you just feel lonely. I did. Just remember there are plenty more people out there and you've got your whole life to live yet and a hell of a lot more people and BOYS to meet! You will get over him eventually, trust me. Don't talk to him, you've gone 2 months, be strong and keep going. Soon you will learn that it will be easier and easier without him. Then, next time you walk past him in school, you can hold your head up high with a smile knowing that you are fully over him. It's hard, but I did it, and so can you. It's the best feeling in the world.xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): honey you are so young and you should give your self some time to heal....after a while you will get over him and find some one else...in the mean time try to keep your self busy doing any thing so that you stop thinking of him dont worry every thing will be ok
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 Well what are the reasons that he stopped talking to you? This might be making you more uneasy than the actual fact that the relationship is over. Im guessing you really miss his friendship more than anything else. I guess you should really tell him how you feel. It seems to me your relationship ended for a silly reason and this is probably why you cant get over it. Therefore I think you should call or text him and tell him how you feel.
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reader, MusicMadBecky +, writes (17 February 2011):
Hello i understand your problem and i think you may find comfort in knowing something about me. Im 15 and in 2007 when i was 11 i was with this boy for about 1 or 2 months and it was a really good solid realtionship. I got over him within a week but then he phoned me a week after me getting over him and asked me to get back with him, i said no. I havent had a relationship since him but he has had many since me. I told him i loved him still in 2009 and he said he used to love me and that we had a special bond and also said that in a year or two we could get together. We talk when it suits him and we can be really good friends but only when he is in the mood to be friends. No matter how bad he treats me though, i still get those exact feelings you have for this guy whenever i see him or hear his name. I look at his facebook everyday and i just smile whenever i think of what we had. I love my boy still and this is 4 years later in may. So i guess what im hoping is that you will realise that it can take a while to get over somebody but one day you will get over your guy! :D xxx
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