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He should have been talking to me, not my worst enemy.

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Question - (17 February 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 51-59, *amelax4 writes:

I love my husband but we have been together only 3 years and for the first year he couldnt let go of his ex, I dont think anything sexual happened but they talked daily 20 times while he was working, for hrs at a time and she always called at 11am, I found out about these calls and conversations which has hurt me deeply and to this day cannot seem to get past the hurt.

I think what bothers me the most is it was kept secret and the calls were about our relationship, he should have been talking to me, not my worst enemy. why cant I move forward and let go, he does everything right now and has had no contact with her that I know of for almost 2 years. please help me im driving myself crazy!

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