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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: How often should couples do things together once they are living together? I moved in in December and things have been pretty rocky. Lately, he hasn't been inviting me out at all, and he goes out every night these days. When we do have plans to go out, he is already drunk and it's near 11 when he wants to meet up. He gets mad at me for not being flexible, but he isn't being flexible either. I love eating dinner together and going to bed together, and I don't care if he goes out, but I don't like going to bed alone every single night. He gets upset when I bring any of this up, but we are at that point of no return and we both really want to make this work. I feel like I'm putting forth all the real effort by going to therapy to better myself (I've not been myself for a few months) and our relationship, but every time I mention anything he does that I don't like, nope. There is nothing he can do about it. Thoughts?
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