A
female
age
41-50,
*illy
writes:hi,help me,tell me if am wrong but i think my husband is controlling or he is just using me to make sure his life is complete....recently i attended my best friends wedding and he refused to go with me even for the evening party only to go home and he threw me with the baby out of the bed room and never said a thing...again my husband will never accompany me to visit mu mum neither will he make himself available when she come visiting to say hallo......my family functions are mine alone and when he has his family functions he ensures i accompany him and look happy of which i do with all the love......He has no time for his son always working ...please help i want a man who can be their for me when i need him and also one who will see my values and try at least 50% to do them..like at least attend a few of my family functions..by the way non of my family members talks to him simply because after our wedding he decided to avoid them totallyAm very lonely and dont wanna live the rest of my life in pretends can i call it off???
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reader, melomat  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 It seems like you know what to do. Marriage is meant to be a life long commitment but if it threatens your well being in any way then it's best you reconsider. When you got married you accepted him for who he is and his family it's only fair he do the same. Even if a man has a 12 hour day there should be time for his children. If you really feel you're suffocating then leave and find the man you want surely you want to live happily ever after
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