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writes: i have a 6 month old son with a guy i met and after constant arguing and him contacting his ex that he cheated on me with in the beginning he said we rushed the relationship and we should focus on our friendship. what does that mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso, thanks for the answers..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe says focusing on our friendship will make our relationship better/stronger. he wants me to move in with him and get a job but i want to go to school. he has to have everything his way or no way. he constantly puts me down by saying i do nothing all day. when i watch the baby. he says he talked to his ex about our relationship yet he hid that from me by putting her in his phone under a different name and saying it was a guy from work. i ound out asked him he responded just a friend from work. i yelled at him and said no its your ex then he said well i knew youd get mad if you knew i was talking to her. i was just trying to fix our relationship but now he wants to call us "friends" and progress from there. i just don't know what to do anymore i'm tired of the lies and him making me feel like crap by putting me down.
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (17 February 2011):
Most likely, reading between the lines? He is dumping you but hopes you will be available for booty calls.
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