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*ainbowGummyBear
writes:I've always likes girls. Like, when I was younger I'd spend my alone time with girls kissing them. Right now I'm in a "I want to be with you but I don't know what my parents would think." relationship with my best girl friend. She likes me and she said she'd wait for me, but I don't want to keep her waiting. And I don't want to keep waiting either.Also, I don't want to be in a "secret" relationship with her. It'd have to be a secret from my grandfather though, since he's against me dating, especially girls. But that wouldn't be hard. Anyway, I would like to be in a relationship where my aunt knows about it, since she and my grandparents are the ones raising me but I'm closest to her. And she's sort of like a friend more than a parent, really. But anyway, I need your help. How should I tell her?Oh, and clearing things out just in case this crosses your minds, yes. She supports gays and bisexuals, and has told me that she'd be okay with me liking girls.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Good luck and remember it may take sometime so be patient!
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reader, RainbowGummyBear +, writes (18 February 2011):
RainbowGummyBear is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you! 3
I'm telling my aunt. It's something I have to do.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (17 February 2011):
The best way for you to do this is to be honest with them, not only about how you feel about this girl, but about how you feel in general about your sexuality.
It may not be what they want to hear and dont expect them to be ok with it right from the start it gay take time for them to adjust. You need to make them see that this is what makes you happy, they are your family and they will just want you to be happy.
Hope this helps.
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