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writes:I just started dating this guy. We have a lot in common and he's attractive. I thought I liked him but now I'm not sure. I dont know if it's just me though because I dont like dating very much. and he's a bad kisser too :/ He uses a lot of tongue and it gets kind of sloppy. And I still like a guy that ive like for three years. I thought i was over him but as soon as me and my boyfriend started dating i cant stop thinking about him. I kind of think I rushed into things with him. I didnt know him for very long but I liked that we had alot in common. He's the first peron ive met that likes the music i like but im just so confused about this. i think the kissing thing put me off alot and the fact we havn't known each other for very long. I'm not completely myself around him yet.. Should I keep this going and get to know him better?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): It sounds like you like your boyfriend and the other boy is just a distraction. On the other hand if you really do like this other boy and you know it's not just a "grass is always greener" situation then you should pursue that. Think about your decision.
As for the sloppy kissing, I couldn't give you any technique advise to give him as I think I'm a pretty terrible kisser too, but I did read some very good advise from another agony aunt. They suggested that you make it a game. Just sit in your room or his and tell him that you're going to kiss him the way you want to be kissed and then he can kiss you the way he wants to be kissed. You can go back and forth until you're both comfortable and happy with the way you kiss. It's fun and I guarantee he'll be up for it.
Good Luck!
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