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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Most men usually don't care whether a woman has orgasmed or not, as long as they themselves got off. But some men feel better (adequate) when they know that they have satisfied your needs as well as their own, you lucky girl you. Yes I do believe that he is making sure you are taken care of.
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reader, pinkie390450 +, writes (18 February 2011):
pinkie390450 is verified as being by the original poster of the question @blode68
thanks a whole lot!
this really helped me out.
now i'll be able to have more confidence when he asks (:
@largentsgirl89
no he was simply asking me after we were done whether i had finished but i had no idea what he meant by that.
so when ever he asks me whether i finished he's really asking me if i orgasmed?
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (17 February 2011):
Oh dear its a bit of a passion killer isn't it!
Perhaps he is asking you because he wants to ensure you are fullfilled and doesn't want to stop until you have orgasmed.
With time you will get to know each other well enough and he won't need to ask, he will just know.
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female
reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (17 February 2011):
Did he say it with a mean undertone or was he just simply asking you a question?
IF he was just asking you a question then he wants to know if you got off (had an orgasm).
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 I think he wants to know if you have had an orgasm.
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