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*hyGirl0819
writes:I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now, and we haven't held hands and we've only hugged once. We are both very shy, me especially, and he's very hard to read. I would really like to hold hands, hug, or cuddle with him; but I'm not sure how. What are some ways I can do those things? What can I do to give him hints that I want him to hold my hands, hug, etc?P.S:He's my first boyfriend and I'm his first girlfriend.I'm 14 and he's 15
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reader, sunandstars  +, writes (17 February 2011):
Ahhh, this sounds so familiar! I've been in EXACTLY the same position except that I'd had the odd boyfriend before so I decided that he wasn't comfortable with making the first move so I would. Basically we were walking next to each other, and I just touched his hand, as if by accident, he got the hint, and we held hands. Simple! I hope this works for you too! He probably does want to aswell, he's just very shy about making that first move. Good luck!
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reader, Blod +, writes (17 February 2011):
 If you're both shy, then just go for it yourself! He probably feels exactly the same way as you and is hoping you'll make the first move. But if this carries on, nothing will happen! One of you has to act first, so if you want to hold his hand I suggest you do it! It doesn't matter how many hints you drop, he'll more than likely ignore them if he's shy. Be bold and go for it! He is your boyfriend after all.
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