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writes:I'm a married guy who had a crush on a single, unattached co-worker who's since left the company. Nothing more than emotional attachment on my part ever happened, and she never knew about my feelings. I was devastated for months when she left, and now I've learned she's in a serious relationship, which has brought those forlorn feelings back again. I have no intention of "going for it" with her. What I'm asking here is for advice and tips for getting over her. For starters, I'm trying to focus more on my wife, and also looking within myself to see where I'm deficient and looking to fill those "gaps" with fantasies like I had for a girl who's 20 years younger than me. (Obviously, fear of getting old is probably at play.) But on top of that, does anyone have any pointers on getting her out of my thoughts?
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