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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and an half. We never fight and he is a marriageable guy. Only problem is i'm only 19! I am not ready to be tired down. I love him but everything is just to set! It is like we are already married, and he just never makes me happy anymore which hurts me to say. I miss going out with my friends and kinda being single. But I have never broken up with anyone but its not just that I have a few other things keeping me back;- He is over emotion and cry's easy and every time that happens it breaks my heart.- his Mom died around a year ago and he has been depressed thinking about her lately.- He and I never see each other between work and college....- I am worried I well want him back and regret it...This would be really out of the blue for him and im scared. Sometimes I think I should just keep dating him and stay unhappy. But I am temped to cheat and I know how that feels so I am NOT!Please help me any tips well help...I just don't know what I want anymore.
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reader, Gabrielle42 +, writes (18 February 2011):
I don't really have any good advice for you and I don't know what is the best way to go about ending a relationship like that but your question caught my eye because I'm in a similar situation. I'm just 20 years old and I've been with this guy for a little over a year and a half and it's like it's already a done deal and we're gonna get married as soon as we finish some more school and get careers established etc etc. But I'm not ready to settle down either. Obviously the right thing to do is end it, and the sooner the better because it's not fair to stay with someone out of pity or because you're scared you'll hurt their feelings and it'll only get harder to do the longer you stay with him. Everyone deserves to be with someone who wants to be with them. Plus you don't want to end up married to someone that you only have lukewarm feelings for! The answer is all too clear just very hard to do. And don't worry too much about regretting it because I really do believe that if it's meant to be it'll be! So let that give you a little more certainty.
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