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female
age
41-50,
*rulan
writes:Ex is avoiding me... why do men act scary?Well my ex is currently married with kids and recently I expressed to him that I did have feelings a little only b/c he kept contacting me whenever he signs online. (Occasionally so I started to catch feelings again. Is this normal? I was doing fine until he contacted me. Why do guys keep in contact with their exes anyway? why contact, what are your intentions? I don't get it, I mean for what? During our conversation he says oh I understand I feel the same way and then we started talking about the past he says oh i miss your cooking the way you smell etc blah blah... I then I told him that maybe I needed closure and he was fine with that. The next day he called and we were talking about meeting (he sounded like he was interested in doing so). and he told me to let him know when. also talked about our kids, just randmon questions nothing serious. Oh! by the way I did break it off with him b/c I was moving to another state this has been yrs ago. Anyway I am not trying to get back with him or anything just wanted to be friends-associates whatever.... Well after our conversation he did send me an instant message online saying what are u doing? but I was away from my computer so after that havent heard from him in like a week. Guess he is avoiding me? or is scared to meet but he wasn't acting like that during our conversation. I am fine with that but I would prefer men to keep it real and not avoid someone just delete their A and *% from FB or Instant Message.Did I mention that I have moved on as well? I am also married I know what you all are gonna say move on blah blah you are married (Stay in your marriage I know I knowBreak it down nicely
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Yea I think it would be a bad idea to meet up with this ex. As it will create a whole drama for you. Old feelings will come rushing back to you and you may not be able to control them. The way he has been talking about the past shows he still remembers a lot from your relationship. Even if the both of you had good intentions of only being friends hunny it would not work out that way. If you are starting to get those old feelings now just imagine what they would be like when you actually meet up with him. Yeah your best bet is to cut contact with him or else risk breaking up two families or getting your heart broken.
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