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writes: So i'm 17, my bf is 18 we've been together for since we were in middle school, I was 12 he was 13 to be exact. Anyway, we have a 7 month old baby girl!So a few days ago my bf's dad was talking with my bf and brought up our daughter and said that she looks nothing like him. Now my bf is believing his dad and saying our baby is not his.Yesterday my bf wanted a paternity test, I was like okay whatever cuz I know for sure she's his baby. So with getting the test, he wanted his brother and one of his friends to get tested too cuz he thinks I cheated on him with them.I just need some advice here. Reply to this Question
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (17 February 2011):
If you are sure there's nothing to fear. The only problem here is how much all this situation offends you.About the test I think that he has to take the paternity test and that's all. If it's not his child, who the real father is is none of his business. Unless you have any doubt about it.
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reader, Betherly  +, writes (17 February 2011):
I think if you havn't slept with anyone else that you should tell him straight "she is his daughter and that you havn't slept with anyone else, we have been together 4 years and he needs to trust you more" in my opinion i don't think you should if had a baby too young, because if you split up the baby will be in a broken home, and there's already been a slighly bitrayal of trust, but that's my advice anyway:)
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (17 February 2011):
 If you haven't been with either his brother or his best friend then go and get the test! Your bf will be very embarrassed when he see's that your little girl is infact his!!!
Your daughter may take after you more than she does him, how rude of his father to be putting ideas into his head!!! Get the test, and see what they both have to say to you after DNA proves that she is your bf's baby girl.
Best of luck! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): Do it then. And if he doesn't trust you, should you still stay with him? It must be difficult if you love him and if you won't be able to support your child without him. Talk to him before you take the test and tell him that if you are going to stay together, you're going to have to trust each other. Good luck!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 What a huge betrayal of your trust! I think you should put your foot down. Tell him you'll get the test with him and only him because he's the only man you've been with.
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