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*illy_fifi
writes:I'm in love and it's for the first time. and to make matters worse, he is in a relationship with a friend of mine, and it gets worse he told me that he's in love with my to, but all so with his girlfriend. I don't what to be come a homewrecker, my question is how do i get over him? I dont want to me that woman Reply to this Question
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (19 February 2011):
Hi there...
Hope all went as well as can be expected!
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reader, silly_fifi +, writes (18 February 2011):
silly_fifi is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for you input,
I haven't been able to talk to any one about this and it driving my insine, i've made my decision and i'm going to "brake up" with him tonight.
I just wanna thank you for this I needit to hear(read) this so thank you
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (17 February 2011):
So what do I do?? You walk away, well actually no, you run as fast as you can and don't look back.
You say he is dating a friend of yours..... In my eyes, no man would ever come between friendship, I cherish my friends, and if you can't do it for yourself, do it for your friend and end it now. How would you feel if a friend was cheating with a partner of yours behind your back... its totally unacceptable!!
How do you get over him? You completely delete him out of your life... phone number, email, fb, everything has to stop with immediate effect. You will find it hard, it takes a hell of a lot of willpower but time is a great healer, and eventually you will be glad that you did it.
You will be labelled a horrible woman if you continue this because eventually you will get found out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): If you don't want to be "that" woman, stay away from him. He doesn't love you both, that's rubbish, more than likely he's trying to sweet talk you so he can have you on the side.
Why would you want to be with someone who treats the woman he supposedly "loves" like that? Just avoid him at all costs and don't listen to his sweet talk because it's lies. Be smart here and don't do that to your friend.
If she has any sense she'll figure out what he's like eventually.
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