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30-35,
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writes:there is this girl that i like and i know she likes me too. we often text or call and we have a date next week.but.... first she accepted my friend request too late on facebook and after we arranged for date she deleted me off her friend list!!!(also she didnt delete my wall post on her wall!!!).any idea what's up with her?
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reader, SL +, writes (18 February 2011):
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reader, JDinCali +, writes (17 February 2011):
 Her inconsistency suggests she's unsure what she wants.
It's hard to say more, it could any number of reasons, so it's better not to assume. The best way to know, would be to ask her why she deleted you.
Maybe she likes the response on her wall, never mind it's from you, just enjoys the fact she got attention on her profile.
Good luck with figuring her out. Personally, I don't like games. It's nice to have an honest person who is willing to talk about things before deciding to do something. After all, its out of respect for the other person do we choose to communicate, but then, we also have to actually care about the other person's feelings to be willing to talk in the first place. Seems like she's rather emotionally unavailable. You deserve better.
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reader, violetfiend  +, writes (17 February 2011):
Hey there,
It was probably an accident, if you are really worried phone her. However you don't want to come across needy or like your angry, don't even bring it up if you can just get a feel for the relationship between the pair of you. Talk about your upcoming date and try to not bear a grudge about it when you see her next. then try readding her on FB saying something silly like, 'oops was our date really that bad' act as if you haven't noticed and i'm sure it will all work out. Women don't want crazy cyber stalkers, although we al do it... Even me!
If she won't readd you then talk to her on the phone or face to face, women always like the personal touch... I know I do!
Good Luck on your date, and remember, shower, shave and scent (but not too much!)
Much Love
VF X
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