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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 I don't care if he is a guy. 195 pictures of porn on his phone? Wtf is that? Is he a sex addict? Is he trying to prove something?
I find this very disrespectful to you and your even paying his phone bill? Stop paying his phone bill until he agrees to take the pictures off of the phone. I wouldn't tolerate that. No siree bob. Pictures go or he can. Would he appreciate you having 195 pictures of naked men on your phone and if he would be okay with that then I would think it's time to move on to a new boyfriend.
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reader, sadeyes232008 +, writes (20 February 2011):
sadeyes232008 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni want to thank everyone for there answer but I'm still confused because i don't understand why he has to have those pic is not that i want to control him is that i don't appreciate things like that especially when I'm helping him paying the phone for him and i fell that he is just using me and he really doesn't care i did tell him to erase them and he said he won't because for him they are only pic. so I'm still in a dilemma but thanks for everyone's respond i am very grateful
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reader, LittleMissy  +, writes (17 February 2011):
He maybe had them before he met you and never got round to deleting them. If it makes you uncomfortable tell him. Explain to him your not trying to control him but it makes you unhappy and you'd appreciate it if he deleted them. Men do look at pictures and it doesnt mean he loves you any less. But if he respects you then he should listen. X
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (17 February 2011):
 Well, he's a guy. They generally like naked women. Whats the big deal?
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (17 February 2011):
I'm a little confused. He had 195 pictures of porn star or pictures of porn stars and local girls?
I would be very offended as well and I think you should let him know that. Would he be okay if you had that many pictures of naked guys on your phone? That's a little ridiculous. They are only pictures and he isn't hurting anyone, but shouldn't his daughter mean more to him than a bunch of porn stars?
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reader, melomat  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 I'm having the same issues with my husband. He has a lower sex drive so always we fight over sex. I've settled for watching porn and masturbate. I think it's better to go the porn route. You need to understand that people have sexual needs and need one way of dealing with. It unfortunate the baby had to see such. Talk to him about keeping his pictures in a more private place to avoid a repeat.
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