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Still living with my ex, now I've had a dream about him, what does it mean?

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Question - (17 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2011)
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I had this dream last night that I was lying in bed. I woke up from my bed and went into my home office and opened the door leading into the backyard. I noticed that the deck was gone and it looked like someone was starting to build a bridge connecting from our house. I looked over to the right and saw my ex-boyfriend working on the bridge. I asked him what happened to the deck and he replied that he wanted to build a bridge instead. He invited me to join him. I walked over and started to work on the bridge. I don't remember the rest because it was fuzzy but I remember waking up again and going to the back door. I opened it and this time the bridge was complete. My ex-boyfriend was standing in the middle of it, waving at me to hurry up and come along. I was hesitant at first but decided to go. He kept joking and poking fun at me saying I was so slow. All of a sudden he disappeared and I kept walking. When I got to the end, he was standing there smiling. He took my hand and said "here" and I noticed he gave me an olive branch. I asked him what it was for. He replied "You should know babe" and then he said " cmon babe. I'm with you. Let's go". I noticed the air was really warm, and it was sunny with green grass and trees everywhere. We were really happy and seemed peaceful and in love. I knew then that we were back together and things were going to be okay. Then I woke up.

As a side note, my BF and I broke up a month ago. We still live together and have openly had many discussions about our relationship and its issues.

Any feedback? Thank you!

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A female reader, No watered down advice here! United States +, writes (17 February 2011):

No watered down advice here! agony auntI had to read that dream again! And Yeah, it's scary! I don't see it as the two of you getting back together, it's a sign he can be leading you to somewhere you not too sure you want to go! And handing you a tree branch! Now, you know people who need help when they're in too deep, will receive a tree branch if a rope isn't around? Get out of that relationship! If we're going to analyze the dream I wouldn't say it meant togetherness, not in life anyway!I see dreams mean things to you, so I went there with you. LOL!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (17 February 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntWell its never healthy to live in the same house as an ex. They are an ex for a reason and if you keep living with him you will never be able to let go of the relationship. That is why you had this dream. Because it sounds like you may be happy that you are both still living together but you want more than that. You want commitment. I think you guys need to work out if you can go forward and if not then its best one of you move out. Hope this helps a little sweetie.

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