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He was having a text affair with the cleaner because we had a row?

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Question - (17 February 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

i have been with my man for 5 years, in this time he has photographed his penis and himself in my bedroom on the adult friend finder, i was 7 mths pregnant at the time, ive found various other women photos on his phone which he down loads from facebook, recently he was having a txt affair with the scabby cleaner from work, he was hiding his phone from me and nearly sent me mad!i caught him because the phone is in my namre and i went online and found this womans number, i called her and she said it was only fun ect just swapping jokes ect.... mmmm. he said he was flerting...and only did it because was had a little row.... i am eaten up inside by it all, cant sleep or eat it has been a month now since, i still feel just as angry... i do lovr him but i cant stop running through the senario's in my head arrrrrg help me someone!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011):

You need to realize that no matter what she said, you probably don't know the full truth about your man.

You can get a lot of bad advice on line, as well as good advice, but you need to fully investigate your relationship.

Also, remember, people don't cheat because of you...they cheat because of their own issues.

Good Luck.

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A female reader, Sabrena Australia +, writes (17 February 2011):

He is very naughty but girl if u forgive him that means u forgive and dont punish him by hold graudges, if u really feel angry still maybe u havent forgiven him and u should consider seperating for a while it would probably be good and really u should not be stressing as its nt good for the baby. Some men suck but love sucks even more.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011):

I am not surprised you are uneasy about this. OK if he was free but as he is in a realtionship it should stop. If you tackle him about it he may carry on in secret anyway. So just make it clear that this is not a good way to be going on. It may be a bit of fun for him but if you are very upset about it he should think of you and stop.

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