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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been married 5 yrs. Lately, when my husband and I argued, he would always calls his ex. He said it was nothing and they are just friends. Then he started calling her secretly. One week later, he went on a date with her and they had sex together. I realised this after their date. When he came home, his mouth had lipstick on it, and his clothes smelled like ladies perfume. I asked him, but he denied it. After 4 days when he saw me packing all my belongings he said that it wasn’t his ex but someone else.I asked him to talk to her, and I would give him one week. After 1 day, I found out it was actually his ex, not the other girl. I confronted him and he accepted everything and asked me to forgive him. I asked him if he can breakup with his ex. He called his ex and told her that their relationship has to end, but I thought it was odd that his ex only said, “ok.” My question is, did they actually break up for real or they are playing around with me? Should I forgive him and believe he has changed now? I don’t trust him. I gave him his last warning, but I have a feeling they are still together. I am stressed and confused. Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): they are still together.
he is playing you for a fool.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): Walk away, this man is no good, I wish I had walked away when I found hidden letters from my Exs previous girlfriend. I gave him the benefit of doubt but he eventually left - a few years later, for somebody else. She had a home he could move into and 2 childrenI would rather he had said he was unhappy and no longer loved me than deceiving me for years.I would then have had a chance to find someone who would make me happy.
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reader, yesno  +, writes (7 April 2011):
RUN! He's a cheater. If you want a monogamous man, he's not for you. Seriously.
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