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He's my ex and wants to have sex. I want to do it, or at least say that he asked me, out of spite. Should I?

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Question - (7 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *immiluvb writes:

So why did this boy "J" text me yesterday asking me if we still can have sex. When he has just broken up with me and is now going with another girl... a part of me wants to just have sex with him just to try and get back at her by telling her.... but then I'm not over him yet. I still have feelings so I know that it will probably back fire towards me.. which I really don't wanna happen.. I can't stop thinking about the whole situation at all I need help. I don't know why I still have feelings for a scumbag such as him it doesn't make sense... do you think I should just leave it all alone and run far away or should I be bad and do it and face my pain silently afterward? Do you think I should let her know that he asked even if I don't have sex with him...?

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A female reader, cupidus Canada +, writes (8 April 2011):

cupidus agony auntWhat's better than an orgasm and lasts longer?

Telling your horny EX to "FOFF"

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A female reader, nester United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

It will never work if he is with another girl let it go and forget about him trust me i know what your going through because i have been in your shoes before. And i know how hard it is when you love someone and want to be with that person but you will never forgive yourself if you give into him.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (8 April 2011):

Aunty BimBim agony auntYou are not good enough for him to have as a girlfriend but good enough for him to screw? Don't think so sweetheart.

The most empowering thing you can do in this situation is to tell him to go screw himself.

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