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Advice on dating outside your own race?

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Question - (7 April 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, I'm a white boy and haven't had many girlfriends at all. Where I live there are a lot of Hispanics in addition to whites. I have found a lot of the Latinas to be very attractive and outgoing but haven't asked any out cause I think they wouldn't want to be seen with a white guy. Any advice on how to go about dating them? What are the cultural differences I need to be aware of? Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011):

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Thanks all for your answers. They were really encouraging to be honest. Wish me luck!

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A female reader, livelaughlove23 United States +, writes (7 April 2011):

If you're respectful, loving, and overall a good guy and this is for any women, then go for it. Take a chance. We woman all want a man who is respectful and loving... We ALL have our preferences...

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A female reader, pinkie390450 United States +, writes (7 April 2011):

pinkie390450 agony aunthi!

i can so help you on this :D im a latina and i LOOOOVE white guys. in my culture there aren't any set back from being able to date a white guy. actually i think most latino families would prefer if there daughters were with with guys, which is great on your part you can check that off your list.

any girl not including race who you like but wouldnt want to be seen with you obviously doesnt like u enough to be with u so if u know she likes you go for it! i know when i had my first white boy friend i wanted to show him off to the whole world lol and i just liked the guy hahaha.

hope i helped any. let me know how it works out for yah (:

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (7 April 2011):

Partyboy123 agony auntHey,

the main problems with that would be religion and cultural views/ceremonial things... they might be ok with dating you, but their parents might object, or their religion is against it etc.. and that will cause problems... i would talk to her about it and ask her to ask her parents.. thats the best bet.

hope i helped :)

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A female reader, Luv2giveadvice Australia +, writes (7 April 2011):

Hello,

Im not sure exatly what the cultural differences

are, but as with any relationship,if you really

like each other you should be able to compromise

and understand each other.

Dont be afraid and take a chance, approach whomever

takes your fancy, there's nothing to lose.

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