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It's over, but he calls about five times a day. Is this harassment?

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Question - (7 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *-faye-x writes:

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years. We have a 3 year old daughter together, so obviously we keep in touch. He sees my daughter on weekends. I'm getting constant calls of him. My mum says I'm over-reacting but I don't think I am, I'm getting like 5 calls a day and if you ask me its harassment!

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A male reader, tby1 United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2011):

tby1 agony auntwhy did you break up? im in a similar position and she thinks its acceptable to contact me when she wants but when i call or text i get fuck all back. all cos i sext text for a few years she thinks its acceptable to destroy our lives and our 2 sons. i dont understand women tbh anymore and never will

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2011):

Calls about what? Because depending on what they are depends on how any judge or law maker will interpret it.

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A female reader, madlib United States +, writes (7 April 2011):

Harassment: behaviour intended to disturb or upset, and it is characteristically repetitive. In the legal sense, it is behavior which is found threatening or disturbing....if you are feeling he is taking it to that level first try talking to him explaining how you are uncomfortable with him calling so much and you would like your space and if he wants to talk to your daughter that is one thing. If you were his only friend then he might be freaking out and going through withdrawals, but if you are getting upset every time he calls, you have every right to put down the rules.

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A female reader, annabc United States +, writes (7 April 2011):

Nah! It would be when he starts chasing you, or spy you, or waiting for you at work, or places near to your home, I tell you cause' I had a similar experience and the phone calls are nothing like harassment. Eventually it will stop. Good luck!

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