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writes:my husband has been addicted to porn for many yearswe have been to many councilors irecently found out he has been masterbating with abroomstick in rectum he had fallen and perferated his colon he had to get acolonostomy bag iwas devastated ifound out after he also enjoyed wearing pantyhose he never told me these things. i havebeen married for 23 years. we are going through adivorce i have ateenage daughter . he is still living in our home and i am uset every day. i dont have a job.he says if i loved him iwould accept himfor who he is he blames the divorce and says its because i nagged him. i am so sad that he cant understand what he has done to me. i just want a answers.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (7 April 2011):
 You know, there's a difference between accepting someone and wanting to be with them. If their lifestyle doesn't appeal to you at all, you can still accept that it's who they are, but that doesn't mean you should be with them.
He cannot see what he's done because he's too selfish to care about others. If he cared about others he wouldn't have been doing the things he did. It's one thing to like that stuff, it's another to hide it from your partner so that finding out is a shock. It's all about honesty, and you didn't fall in love with the real him, you fell in love with someone he was pretending to be.
I think you're making the right choice leaving him. Not because of his fetishes, but more because of his complete lack of good judgement. I mean a broom handle?!? Really?!? Come on. Especially not with a teenage daughter around.
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