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writes:My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it? Reply to this Question
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reader, async8  +, writes (30 May 2011):
I've faced somewhat of a similar before.My girlfriend and I discussed this once - because its something that we had done once, and had talked about doing again. I was concerned that her willingness to do this was because of her wanting to make me happy, thus subsuming her own opinion.The reality is that I need not have worried. She's a strong, self aware, and emotionally stable woman.Her take: What we do in our bedroom is our business. She found the idea of occasional facials an exciting part of our sexual life. She considered it to be simply another aspect of our love making. Yes, there may be an element of power in this, but as long as its shared - so what?To those who condemn men / women for enjoying this - I'm curious - who determines what's sexually acceptable between two people (as long as no one gets hurt)? I'd suggest that its those two people? What defines sexual normalcy? Even within the responses there's a wide variety of what's considered sexually acceptable. Flip the script though - I'm sure if you get right down to it some men might find the idea of giving their women oral downright disgusting - especially if the vajajay is smelly / taste gross, etc - but they probably do it anyhow because they care about keeping their woman happy. There needs to be acceptance on both sides in a relationship.My comment to the poster is that you have to know and accept yourself. You also have to know and accept your partner. If neither of you is able to fully accept the other sexually then you're going to have problems, no matter what "society at large" tells you. You have to be mature about it, no doubt (e.g. if its just about cumming on her face then you might want to give that one up for the sake of peace), but if there's a broad based sexual disconnect then you need to discuss and resolve that as a couple so that you can move forward.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): Goodness anon!...I couldn't have said it better. I too enjoy a very open and liberal sex life with a woman who likes to be slutty sometimes and loving the next. Two nights ago we caressed each other for over an hour after making love, gazing into each other's eyes and telling each other how much we loved one another. Last night we visited a family member in the hospital and when walking through a very quiet wing on the way out, got the urge and had wild sex in a hospital room on a gurney. You have to be fun, spontaneous and open minded in a healthy relationship. Facials are one way of just having a bit of fun, extreme in some ways, yes, but fun. It's submissive for the woman to a degree, but then she ties me up and does stuff to me too, so it goes both ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): Wow...I am shocked at the answers to this question. The judgement. The assumptions that you speak for all women, or that you know that no real women like this - only porn stars. Perhaps you women who are so quick to lay down the judgement on this stuff really have no idea what your girlfriends do and don't do, like and don't like, because they are afraid to tell you because they have detected how judgmental you are.Speaking as someone who has been married for over 10 years...Yes, we do this on occasion. Yes, my wife even asks for it sometimes. It is just another aspect of sexuality that we decided to explore together. She is not so insecure or defensive that she has a need or cumpulsion to analyze every sexual encounter we have as to whether she has been sufficiently "respected.". Yes, we also have very loving sex. Sex that just seems to completely embody the all consuming love and passion we have for each other. Sometimes we have sex that is just my expression of worshiping every ounce of what she is and means to me. Then, we might also have sex in the bathroom at a party. She might be inspired to give me a BJ in the car. I have called her a whore and slut during sex. Ihave come on her face, in her mouth. We have had sex while she verbally leads me through having sex with the pretty waitress who served us dinner, or she recounts how she would like to have sex with another couple we met at a party. The very next night, I may spontaneously utter during sex that I love her so much I feel like I am going to explode. What does one have to do with the other? Actually, everything...There is nothing wrong with wanting to do this. For that matter, in the context of a loving trusting relationship, there is nothing wrong with occasionally objectifying one another. It can be fun to act the whore, slut, Porno God, etc. Sex, particularly in the context of marriage, should be fun. Lighten up all you judgmental folks out there. Hey,, you might find you enjoy life a bit more...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 May 2011):
 I just wanted to point out that perhaps your wife doesn't want to vary the sex since she feels like just about everything you want from her is to copy what you see in porn. That would turn most women off sex, especially anything not strictly vanilla. It basically makes women feel like a masturbation toy, just something to act out your fantasies on, rather than someone to act them out with. This is a really common complaint from partners of porn users, and a lot of the reason people who date regular users struggle to feel attracted to their partners and struggle to keep wanting sex. She may also feel like you're not thinking about her, but rather fantasizing about the last clip you saw or whatever clip inspired your request.
I'd also like to point out that porn frequently does warp people's sense of what's "normal" in a sexual relationship. For instance, it's very common for regular porn users to overrate how much sex they think everyone else is having by at least 10 times and to think people are having much "wilder" kinkier sex than they actually are. For instance, you started this question with thinking that almost all women like getting covered in semen, when most find it rather disgusting and degrading. So this feeling of missing out on what everyone else is getting is pretty much 100% from the porn.
And to add to that, the more porn people watch the less satisfied they are with the frequency of sex and their partner's sexual curiosity. The more porn you watch, the more you think your sex life sucks.
Basically, all I'm saying is it would probably help both of your sex lives if you let up on the porn. You'd probably feel happier with her, and she'd probably want sex more.
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reader, celtic_tiger  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 ok, just something you pointed out there - how much older than you is your wife?
This *may* be a contributing factor to your lack of spicy sex life. Depending on how much older she is she may have issues about what is deemed acceptable within sex, ie what was considered to be acting like a whore, and what is ladylike.
It may also depend on her upbringing. A lot of girls are taught at a young age that certain acts will make them no better than common sluts. This is drummed into them, that sex is bad and there are only certain ways of doing things that are acceptable. You may find this difficult to understand, but women can put a lot of weight onto keeping their virtue and not to be considered cheap and nasty.
I would say most women (not all admittedly) consider the whole "cum on face" issue to be a nasty cheap and degrading act. It is something that porn stars, hookers and girls with no morals do, because they are paid, they are sex objects, they are not loved, they are not cared for, they are just used for sex. Something that can be used and disgarded like an old condom. No love, no commitment, just sex.
We consider this not as a sign that our bf/husband loves us, but that he objectifies us only for sex. That he sees us as something he can use and abuse. It makes us feel unloved, cheap and dirty. We see it that he would rather be with a cheap porn star, than a loving partner.
OP, I am trying to get you to consider how the girl feels in this situation. Men do objectify women as sex objects, especially in porn. It has nothing to do with love, or feelings, it is just an animal act. Real women, in relationships do not want to feel like that, or to be made to feel like that.
You say you love your wife, yet you admit that it is a degrading act? So you would rather she did this for you, yet felt dirty and used inside?
To me it sounds like she is the type of woman who likes romance, care, passion. Seduce her. Caress her, cuddle her.
All the things you request, cum on face, making her swallow, doggy style.... are not exactly the most romantic things in the book are they?
When was the last time you gave her a full on sensual body massage? Have you ever?
I dont mean to sound harsh OP, but maybe take some time out and consider HOW you are intimate? Do you just have sex, or do you make love? They are very different things.
You mention a lot about fantasy.... but the whole point is that they ARE fantasies, not real. She may have dreams of you using a massive vibrator in your anus, would you do that for her? Probably not, im guessing.
She may have body issues, not wanting to be on top - she doesnt like being exposed. When you are on top, it is percieved that her body is not on show as much. Its like having the light off, it feels less intimidating.
All in all, she IS NOT putting the breaks on your sex life. She is just not as adventurous as you. And that is perfectly ok. Rather than you wanting to act like some sex obsessed playboy, why dont you try being more romantic, like a prince charming?
She is giving you sex, she has not stopped loving you. Its like saying..... ohhhhhh its not fair! I WANT THAT TOY, when your mother has just purchased a whole bag of other toys for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question**Celtic tiger,“Have you ever tasted your own cum?” No, I don’t think so.“You sound very arrogant”Really? I hope not, I’ve always disliked arrogant people, I hope I haven’t become one of them.“She has sex with you, that should make you feel wanted! So she doesn’t act like a porn star.... wow”That’s the thing, our sex life is quite “simple”, rarely (basically never) do we have sex in other positions, missionary is about all she will do. She’s not interested in other stuff, there is no variation. She has not once want to ‘ride’ me. We’ve done doggy style like 3 times in all the years we have been together. If we ever do anything different, it’s because I’ve asked (or nagged) and that new thing we are trying only lasts a few minutes because she gets bored and just wants to go back to missionary.I once asked her to put on a short skirt and high heels in the bedroom, in the hope that would spice it up a little. She took that as an offence and was pretty annoyed, I never asked for that one again. Sex toys are absolutely out of the question. I’m not trying to turn our bedroom into a porn studio, I would just like to fire up our sex life, make it worth remembering. It seems that others are able to do this.“Even 'ameteur' porn isnt as 'ameteur' as you probably like to think.”OK I guess you’re right, I can imagine that there is a lot of copying going on."Your 'alternative' of making her swallow your cum is also pretty degrading in my mind. Would you swallow it?" Ok, maybe it is degrading, but I don’t hate her, I love her to bits. I had hoped that she might liked to be dominated sometimes, to be turned on by it.“You are 29. A grown up, not some selfish teenager. Act like a man and accept that your wife is NOT a porn star.”OK OK I’ll start acting like a man!... I’ll try at least!... I will!…**A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011), “If this is how you feel, you've been watching way too much porn”Yep probably too much porn, I can’t help that I like what I see in porn, not all things in porn but certain things. I like girls that dress up, I like girls masturbating. Unfortunately I will only ever experience this stuff through a stupid computer screen and not in real life.“Saying you feel "unwanted" and asking how to "make her do it" both suggest that you are not mature enough to maintain a healthy relationship in any form”??? if what you say is true, then I have a serious problem. I’ve always thought of myself as being quite mature, my wife is older than me and we really are on the same wave length (not with sex). But maybe I am, in some respects, immature.“all women find this degrading, so I suggest that you leave it alone and stop trying to make your wife do something that disgusts her.”OK allright!… most of you have made this clear so I’ll believe you… I don't have much choice anyway do I?...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): Wow, seriously? If this is how you feel, you've been watching way too much porn. If your wife isn't into it, then don't push the idea. Saying you feel "unwanted" and asking how to "make her do it" both suggest that you are not mature enough to maintain a healthy relationship in any form. We all have our sexual fantasies, but sometimes they are best just left as thoughts, and not introduced into the bedroom. Almost all women find this degrading, so I suggest that you leave it alone and stop trying to make your wife do something that disgusts her.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (2 May 2011):
ok, I have a couple of questions for you.
Have you ever tasted your own cum? I mean not just a little lick, but a whole mouthful?
If so, did you like it?
"This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?"
You feel unwanted because of this? You sound very arrogant. She has sex with you, that should make you feel wanted! So she doesnt act like a porn star.... wow.
Very few women like to have cum on or anywhere near their faces. Its just horrible. It also is totally demeaning. Men like this because it is about control. The woman is a subserviant.
Porn stars are paid to like this, and to take it. Even 'ameteur' porn isnt as 'ameteur' as you probably like to think. If it was plain boring normal sex, men wouldnt want to watch it as porn. So they copy what they see in commercial porn. They do things with the idea of people watching what they are doing. These couples perform what they think is expected in a porn film - they are just copying. In their normal lovemaking, it is something they would probably never consider doing in a million years.
Your 'alternative' of making her swallow your cum is also pretty degrading in my mind. Would you swallow it?
You are 29. A grown up, not some selfish teenager. Act like a man and accept that your wife is NOT a porn star. She has feelings too. If you are sexually satisfied otherwise, she gives you sex and makes you feel loved, what is the problem? Fantasy is just that - a fantast, not real. Something for our imaginations only.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNope, she's not so much into sex. That's how she is but that's just my bad luck...
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reader, DanceInTheDark +, writes (30 April 2011):
 Well you mention your wife isn't that into sex, and i'm just wondering if theres a reason why.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPleasure I hope.
I can pretty much say yes, she almost always gets an orgasm. Not through penetration though, clitoral only. If she doesn't get one, she's pretty annoyed then.
Why the question?
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reader, DanceInTheDark +, writes (30 April 2011):
I have a question for you? What does your wife get out of sex? Does she always get an orgasm?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@love mama: yeah, maybe I have been watching too much porn lol :-)@nime: what you say is very interesting,"If you're reading about women who claim they like cum on their face on internet forums, know this: these women are usually actually men posting their fantasies as women"I never really thought of it that way, but I could really imagine this. It wouldn't surprise me if they really were guys!@anon reader from the 7th of april who writes:"Call me old-fashioned, but what is much sexier is semen inside a woman, dripping out of her pussy / vagina, wetting her panties. (Or for that matter her arse, if she's into that.) For me, speaking as a woman, there's nothing that feels more erotic than going about my day with a man's cum dripping out of my hole into my panties. It makes me feel sexy and womanly"Well I have to admit, what you have written is just smoking hot!, that is totally sexy!! I just don't think that my wife could derive the same pleasure from this as you, such thoughts wouldn't come up in her :-( she's just not that into sex.@dmartin89:"Have you thought about a compromise? Like ejaculating on her breasts?"Yes I have thought of an alternative: cumming in her mouth and have her swallow. Unfortunately this is also a BIG NO! she won't do this either.Most of you have made it pretty clear that it's a porn thing, girls don't like it, only do it when they are paid and so on. Thing is I have been watching alot of amateur porn recently. Ordinary couples filming them selves having sex and then posting it on the net. This stuff is clearly NOT commercial porn beacuse they are absolutely and TOTALLY crap at using a camera. However almost all of the girls in these films get a load of cum on thier faces and from what I can see, they like it!!. Only very occaisionally I'll find a vid where you can see that the girl is not exactly happy with cum dripping off her lips. These amature porn vids are of normal people, some look good, some don't, some old, some young, fat, thin, a bit of everything. They are NOT paid porn stars! So if you are all saying that girls don't like it, why do I find so many (amateur) vids fo girls doing this and enjoying it?It just feels that my wife is really putting on the brakes when it comes to our sex life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): I would not say most girls like it. Of the women I've been with, maybe half let me do it, the other half either specify not in the face or it just doesn't happen because she doesn't seem to want it. Of the half that let me, I would say less than half of that like it to any degree. I know some women love it. I have had conversations with one or two women about it and why they like it, and they say it's a power thing...to be in control of a man's desire and be the focus of his sexuality. For men, it is usually a dominance thing and also an acceptance thing. Many people don't understand because they don't fully understand sexuality or what is normal in sexual behaviour. THey say it is gross, and while that may be THEIR perception, it is not everyone's.
I would talk to her and let her know you find it sexually stimulating. If she flat out says no, then you will just have to find other things to explore your sexuality. Believe me, there are thousands of ways to do that that dont involve bodily secretions in any way. Explore sexuality without focusing on one act. Maybe do it a few times if she lets you, and perhaps the novelty will wear off. It's not everything.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (8 April 2011):
 This maybe your fantasy but its not hers!!
Tbh I dont know any women who dont gag at the thought of having cum on their face.
Have you thought about a compromise? Like ejaculating on her breasts?
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reader, moon river +, writes (8 April 2011):
 It's totally understandable you have fantasy but there are surely things you would not do for your wife in bed, because you didn't feel comfortable doing them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Guys,Thanks very much for taking the time to think about this for me and to write your thoughts. Well, some or almost all have given very stern answers there! I’ve read through each and every post, and I must admit that my view on this has been altered somewhat. However going back to the motivation of my question. I can understand that some women might not like it having cum on their faces and this is not something I would expect on a one night stand or in a reasonably new relationship. It just that we have been married for 5 years and it feels like she’s putting limits on our relationship. I’m not asking for BDSM, partner swapping, threesomes or anything like that, I’m asking to do something very intimate and personal, only with her. Why do I want this? Because it’s a fantasy of mine and yeah it does more or less come from porn. There is nothing hotter than seeing a pretty girl’s face glazed with cum and then see her lick it off her lips. I would love to do this with her, and I would never do it with anyone else!
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reader, moon river +, writes (7 April 2011):
Would you enjoy getting messy hot sticky liquid all over your face and in your hair???
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Even at your real age of 29, do you really need to be told women don't like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): I like it, and I am a cultured healthy middle-aged woman. So, there are women out there who like that...and many other things. Maybe people do not discuss their most intimate behaviours with others. And, in response to the question, sex must be totally free. The limits are our own wishes and those of our partners. If a person does not want to do something, he/she must not be made to. She does not want it, she shouldn't do it.But, I'll say it again, I do like it from my man.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (7 April 2011):
 The reasons I don't want spunk in my face is that it smells.. tastes bad too. And it's SO difficult to remove! It gets stuck in hair (impossible to clean out) and if you don't get it all away right away it starts to itch and crack and feels really uncomfortable. And then it gets on the sheets, or you miss and hit my ear, or whatever furniture there's around, and the thought of having to do the clean up is so off putting!
Supposedly it is good against wrinkles though. So, perhaps you could tell your wife that ;)
But yeah, women don't like this typically, each woman has her own reasons, and these are just mine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): NO NOT all women do that I dont do it either and I wouldnt allow it-sorry!!
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reader, DanceInTheDark +, writes (7 April 2011):
News flash. Women don't do that unless they're payed a lot of money.
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reader, muso888 +, writes (7 April 2011):
No girl likes this. If it something you are asking as a favour, then thats different but you really can't judge her for not wanting cum (a thick, sticky substance with a very distingushed smell incase you haven't thought of it like that) to be all over her FACE. Plus, if you've ever (or imagined) squirted lime juice on your eye or a fair quantity up your nose, you'll realise that it all just sounds as unappealing as it actually is.Yuck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): Well coming from someone who just had this talk with her partner, Im gonna say its gonna take some communication. As much as it bothers you that she does not let you, it probably bothers her also to let you do it. Im not a big fan of that either, my boyfriend has been trying this for years and tells me the same thing about "not feeling wanted" I simply told him that unfortunately I do not feel respected if I let him cum in my face and that it will make me feel degraded of some sort, thats just me but I told him I love him and if he loves me then he will understand just like I understand everytime he cums too early or he cant get it up more. You two need to come to a middle ground and an agreement and find a way to complete this fantasy without hurting her emotionally
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): Well, frankly, porn causes really disturbed thoughts about what is normal sexually.You've seen to much porn, and don't understand that it is NOT REAL life.Cumshots came about in porn for a variety of reasons, read up on them and find out their history.Some people do get off on being abused, no question about it, but most people don't. Those who do get off on it usually have distorted abusive pasts and won't tell anyone, and think that they are "normal" but are only guessing at what normal is and failing at it every time.Now, don't beat yourself up. You just need to learn. Learn how to love, hold, cherish, and appreciate your lover.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): Do you believe everything you see on t.v.? I don't know a single woman that likes that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): No. I have let my boyfriend do it a couple of times just because I know he likes it, but thats it. First off it always gets in my eye even if it is shut. Second it just feels degrading. I'm not a porn star I like to be respected. Don't feel unwanted I don't know any girls who like tat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): As the other readers have pointed out, most women do not enjoy men cumming on their face.However it's the kind of thing you see a lot in pornography. But porn is fantasy. Made by men, for men.From a woman's point of view, there are several reasons why it doesn't appeal.1) It feels degrading. Like having someone spit on your face, or blown the contents of the nose on your face. Semen has rather slimy texture (viscocity), and smell, and isn't the most appealing thing to have on one's face.2) Semen has loads of sperm swimming around it, designed to fertilise an egg. The idea of having loads of sperm swimming around on one's face doesn't really appeal.Call me old-fashioned, but what is much sexier is semen inside a woman, dripping out of her pussy / vagina, wetting her panties. (Or for that matter her arse, if she's into that.) For me, speaking as a woman, there's nothing that feels more erotic than going about my day with a man's cum dripping out of my hole into my panties. It makes me feel sexy and womanly.So find somewhere better than her face to blow.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (7 April 2011):
I agree with the other replies, in my experience no girls like this done to them. They do not find it a turn on and are unwilling to give it a try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): It u who don't love ur wife not the reverse. You r asking her to spite on her face. DOn't believe everything on the porn man. Cuming on the face is pleasurable neither for u nor for her. Forget it if u think it is pleasurable. Will u let her if she ask to spite on ur face.FOrget this nonsense. It is a white lie to say most girls enjoy it. If there r girls who do that take for granted that they are doing it just to please their partner. Do u want that? I hope u r not that selfish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): I must be a freak, because I really don't mind a bit. It's just another sort of intimacy with my partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): why would you want to do that to her? That's disgusting. Would it give you some kind of pleasure to do that to her? How would you like her to ask you if she could spit on your face? It's degrading and humiliating and to want to do that to your wife when she said no, you clearly have no respect for her.
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reader, Nime +, writes (7 April 2011):
 That pretty much only happens in porn. NO women like to have their man cum in their face and most women would not even let their man try it. If you're reading about women who claim they like cum on their face on internet forums, know this: these women are usually actually men posting their fantasies as women. It happens all the time. Leave your wife alone.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (7 April 2011):
You shouldn't let this make you feel unwanted. Your wife probably does many things that should make you feel wanted, like having sex with you, enjoying your company, heck she married you. That should count for something. But even if she is your wife, her body is hers, and she has a right to decide whether she wants your cum on her face or not. Regardless of what other women do or don't.
This is about you wanting something and your wife doesn't. Some things you do for your partner even if you don't particularly enjoy it yourself, but then again it is selfish to want something you KNOW your partner will dread. How would you be able to find it pleasurable to cum on her face when you know she doesn't want it? Why do you seek that so much? Is it something you would like to do, just once, or is it something that turns you on? Aren't there other pleasures in sex for you than this?
For the record, no, most women do not do this. If you think they do you have been watching too much porn or listened to too many stories and rumours. But like I said, this is a matter between you and your wife, regardless of what others do or don't. But understand that her body is hers, not yours, even if you are married. If she doesn't want it, you can't make her.
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Your thinking of the girls in porn. They get paid to like. Your wife, like most women, do not love when their men cum on their faces. I personally would slap my man if he ever did that to me. My back, leg, stomach all fine but no face.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): I don't know any women who honestly like that. Even the ones who claim they do - DON'T like it. Some do it just to turn a guy on because he finds it exciting. But women find it disguting, degrading, or violating. Some will be honest with you about that, some aren't. If there are women out there who like it, it's certainly not common and you can't believe what you see in pornos or what you read in Penthouse forum. It is not realistic to think that most women like it. And if you are looking for a way to "make her do it," she will be looking for someone else to replace you. She will find a lover who will respect her. My advice is to forget about this fantasy and just discuss doing other things together that you both are comfortable with. When you are in a committed relationship, there are going to be sexual preferences in the bedroom. Some of them you will agree on, some not. When your partner will not do something you like in bed, then you are supposed to leave it alone and find other things to do that you both can agree on. You don't make her do things, and you don't find another lover to do what you want. That is how commitments are. I never make my wife do anything she doesn't want to do and I would never cheat on her. We find things to agree on. Part of a relationship is sacrifice and respect, and we accept that. I hope this makes sense to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): I've not heard of any woman who would enjoy that.....maybe she'd let you cum on her body......otherwise, you'll just have to "suck it up"
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): No dude almost all girls hate it, and those that allow it usually don't enjoy it.
How would you like if she asked if she could spit phlegm all over your face? Because that's the exact same thing.
They find it degrading, humiliating and disgusting.
You don't make her do anything, you asked she said no and that's that.
Good luck finding any girl that likes it by the way, any guy that tells you they do is a liar or the girl he did it on was a good faker.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): Cum really stings the eyes, I hear. Or it could be a respect thing. Talk to her about it, and respect her wishes.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 April 2011):
 UGH... I'm 51 and I want my man to cum inside me always.either in my mouth or some other orrifice...NOT ON me and NEVER on my face.that's a porn thing.why do you think cumming on her face makes you WANTED?
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reader, Love Mama +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Love Mama thinks you are watching too many pornos. Get realistic, man!
Love Mama
xox
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Almost all girls? Have you came on almost every girls face? No. Lay off the porn, buddy.
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reader, hotinlove +, writes (7 April 2011):
Gotta admit, I love my guy, but hes not cumming on my face! Just about anywhere else is ok!
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (7 April 2011):
 I like my man to cum on me but never, ever on my face.
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reader, sara K +, writes (7 April 2011):
 It's so gross :SIf my BF ask me that I think I'm gonna punch him :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): I actually convinced my ex to do it twice and she was neutral about it. We only did it cause we were both curious... i myself loved it and wanna do it again some day for a special lady if she lets me, but bottom line, i had a rare exception as I was young and new to the element. Your wife is a different tale I would assume and if she says no, you have to respect that but that doesnt mean you cant find some sort of compromise with another sexual act. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBTW I'm 29, not 59 or something like my title is suggesting, I obviously made a mistake with my account...
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