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anonymous
writes:why do i cry so much over one boy?i like him and we used to talk quite a bit but then a girl in my year asked him out with me and he said no hes a year and 7 months older than me now he doesnt talk to me at all and he deleted me from facebook aswell. for some reason i just cant get over him.i need help (im 14 btw)
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reader, hectorlover  +, writes (6 January 2022):
I just cant get over him. we are friends and all i can seem to do is want to be together with him again, he cheated on me which makes things worst cause I dont know if I can trust him again. but I want to know why I cry over him and how I can make it stop.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 It would probably be best not to have him in your life. I have tried to have ex's for friends and it never seems to go very well because you are always prone to fighting. It's nice that you try and being civil is the best thing to do but I think you should accept that he won't be part of your life but remember that it is his loss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit was about a year ago that all of this happened and he still doesnt even smile back at me if i pass him in the corridors at school i wish we cold just be friends again how can i get him to even slightly like me as a friend
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reader, The Realist +, writes (7 April 2011):
At your age this boy feels like he was a big part of your life which is why you feel sad. As you go through life you look back and wonder why those things were such a big deal to you back then but it is ok to be sad.
In time you will get over him and being sad now is all part of growing up. I been heart broken over girls in the past that I look back on now and wonder why I ever felt that way. I didn't need that one girl but either way the grieving process was important at the time.
So don't worry about it there will be many more guys in your life and all you can do is move forward from this one.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (7 April 2011):
You have to realize that you only liked him. He wasn't your boyfriend nor the last boy on earth. So please, take it easy. What are you going to do after your first break up?
He has overreacted obviously, because he's too young. But the only thing hurt here is your ego. You have been rejected, and that happens to everybody. So move on, meet a new boy.
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reader, Ell_Shikari +, writes (7 April 2011):
At this age he is scared of everything to do with relationships he will have his head set for enjoying himself with friends, basically if he is blocking you out of his life then he is a lost cause, best to forget about him and try to move on, it will be hard but it takes half the time you liked him to get over him.
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