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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I dont like flirting around with girls, not because it is bad but because am not ready for it. i don't have a gf and don't need one now, but when i meet or see a girl especially with her bf, i feel i am missing a lot of things in life. my question is, will having a gf stop this feeling and if no, how can i stop myself from feeling cheated?
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Hiyaaaa,Obviously seeing couples around you get really degraded and sad because your like lonely but that is not true!If your not ready don't force yourself because there will be plenty of other opportunities with women in during the future and your not missing out!You just need to find love through over things like goood food, music, books, hanging around with friends, playing sports and all of those. Don't feel like your missing out on things because you will the "one" it just takes time and patient is virtual!So go out there and replace that missing part of the heart though FOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (especially ice cream!!! :P)Hope my advice helps!Good luck!Lots of love,Ima FreAk!x
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reader, shabby-chic +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Hi,Being a young guy you are bound to have this feeling especially when you see couples. So if you feel as if you are missing out then you could put yourself out there more..you never know, might find someone you really like..On the other hand you seem pretty certain that you are not ready to have a gf so it could be seeing couples makes you feel forlorn. This conflicting emotions do often emerge and the best way is to do something about it. So to stop yourself from feeling cheated, I would advice you pursue more hobbies or interests. Bottom line is that whilst you could get into a relationship, its not always the bet answer and if you don't feel ready then you may just end up hurt. So no need to rush, enjoy being young, meet new people, do great things and you will know when the time is right! Good luck.
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