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writes: I have a horrible, horrible crush on my gym teacher. He is the hottest man I have ever laid eyes on and he's shy but when he yells, oh God am I turned on.The slight problem is that Im thirteen and he just turned 28. I know that he's married and has a girl, too.How the hell do I get him off my mind? He's all I think about 24-7 and the only thing I look forward to in a school day. I'm really lost here. I've never even had a thing this big for a guy my age. Help me, please. I'm pretty sure he knows and I love and respect this man too much to let it ruin his career or life.The other thing is that I know he likes me too. He gazes at me in class and purposely stands next to me, and does stupid stuff with hockey sticks and rackets to get my attention.Again, please help.
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reader, livelaughlove23  +, writes (12 April 2011):
Honey, you must work harder to get him off of your mind. Go out with your friends, join a club, get a new hobby, join a zumba class.....go do something! In reality, you're the only person who can really get him off of your mind. We can only give you suggestions and can't force you to do something. This is not HIS problem, it's yours. He probably doesn't have a crush on you and if he did; that's a red flag, because you're so young and lets say he DID have a thing for you and acted on it--he's a pedophile! another Big Red Flag! You're so young-you'll get over this soon...........
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): Thanks for the answers, but this is not helping at all to get him off of my mind, you know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): I agree with Oneguy, Its the hormones, try to concentrate on something interesting read readers digest/story books, keep yourself busy this is a temporary phase in life...it may pass to..!
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reader, oneguy +, writes (7 April 2011):
 This is really funny!! Sorry Miss but it's true, when you're 13, puberty makes you think the other person is doing things that he definitely isn't ;)We've all been through this so you're safe :)This is called infatuation.Aahh to be young again! -_^
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reader, livelaughlove23 +, writes (7 April 2011):
Accept that fact that this is a crush--just a crush. You have to remember that you are 13 and he is 28 years old. You maybe mistaking his gestures (looks, funny things for attention, etc) for something that they are not. You may be one of his favorite students and I'm sure you do not expect him to treat you mean, right? Why would he be mean towards you? He most likely enjoys his job and enjoys working with kids, which is how it should be.But, since you have this crush and you see him all of the time, it will be hard to get him off of your mind...
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