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writes:I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year. He just started working everyday from 7-3:30 but has Sundays off. This has been difficult for me since im used to talking to him all day plus it’s been harder for us to get together. He try’s to see me once a week every week which I appreciate. I used to see him every other week and we would swap so it’s fair but I got in a car accident a month ago so I have no car. I’ve been a little depressed lately with the accident, im getting a tonsillectomy, got hives from stress plus school finals and work. Every once in awhile I need support but he has been so busy that he can’t talk. I get sad from this but I talk to him about how I feel and he is trying to be there more and care about my problems instead of thinking it doesn’t matter. I really love him but I still have doubts about whether he is the one for me. It’s that tough time in our relationship when we start questioning our love but he assures me that he really wants to spend the rest of his life with me. When we are together I have no doubts that I love him because we have been through a lot and rarely fight. If we fight then we both end up feeling so guilty that we make up in the same night. my boyfriend is good to me, cares about me, try’s to keep in contact, visits me once every week because he knows I have no car now, he’s working so that we can go on more dates in the summer. He is the sweetest boyfriend. When we are together every kiss is magical. I already had sex twice with him and that made us feel closer. It’s been hard because he has work and I have work plus school. He works mornings and I work evenings. We are mostly apart and it makes me think that we are drifting apart. I can’t see my life without him and I know this sounds stupid because it’s only been a year and im 19 and he’s 20 yrs old but that’s how I feel and nobody could change that. He promised me already that in the future he would propose to me. I could tell that he meant it by the way he looked at me. If im so sad because of my life and have to cry from being stressed out I get a hug from him and he makes me laugh. Can your second love be the one you spend forever with? Do u think that we have a chance and am I pushing things too fast? I believe its true love but some people say that’s its not real.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Honey it can be. My mom met my dad when she was 16. She married him at 19 and at 58 she died in his arms and he cried like a baby....it happens.don't rush it...
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