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*sycho in love
writes:hey guys, i go out with a girl that has lots of boys as friends and has a boy best friend, is it normal for me to get really jealous and sometimes upset because it seems like she likes him ?
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Theres nothing to worry about alot of my friends are boys. Girls usually like boys as friends because they like a boys opinions on things, i wouldnt let it worry you. Unless there is anything suspicious but to me it doesnt sound like there is. Good Luck! :)
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reader, psycho in love +, writes (7 April 2011):
psycho in love is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice guys, im going to try and not let it bother me and be the best boyfriend i can be :)
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (7 April 2011):
 My best friend is a guy. Some guys are intimidated then they see that you are more like siblings than bf/gf and you start to be more confident. You will have to get used to it as he is her best friend. She may resent you in the future if you try to push them apart.
Hope this helps =)
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (7 April 2011):
 It's natural, but you really need to control yourself.
It's natural because as a guy, you know that guys aren't usually friends with girls they aren't interested in dating. So you realize that his intentions may not be as pure as they seem. At the same time, this is NOT something that she realizes, wants to realize, or will admit if confronted about it. He will likely deny it as well, even if we know better. Because of that, any jealousy you show will only serve to drive her away from you. Just be supportive and confident that she's with you because she likes you more. Do your best to become her best friend by being open, caring, listening to her, helping her, etc. Basically be a good boyfriend and eventually YOU will be more important to her.
Still, if he's been in her life for a long time, it's best if you just accept that he'll always be there. He's only a threat if you make him one.
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reader, Naley1289 +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Oh, my God! I know what you feel like, not because it has happened to me but because I'm a girl who ONLY had guy friends and almost every guy I have dated at one point has felt super jealous because my best friend is a guy and I only hang out with guys. But yes its normal hun, as long as you don't try to control her and tell her she can't hang out with her friends anymore. Just talk to her and see what happens. Maybe its just your jealousy that's making you think she likes him. Remember, communication is the key.
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