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writes:hey, thanks to everyone who will reply to this in advance. So im a 21 year old girl. Ive only had one serious relationship so far and it ended in a mutual break up last year. After that ive gotten close to many guys but there is one guy who ive been extremely close to for the past few months. Ive told him everything, good and bad, about my life. He still accepted me, and he told me he loves me. Even thought he hasnt asked me out, he keeps repeating those three special word and tell me how ive made his life more special. When he confessed his feelings, i gradually started falling for him too! And now i completely love this guy and that's when he starts pulling away. Oh and i haven't really been able to express my feelings to him yet! He started talking to me about his ex, about how he misses her, and wishes he could change the past and go back to her. Since he was there for me and advised me when i was in a messy post break up state, i somehow felt it was my duty to help him out this time. So i told him that if he really did feel for his ex, maybe he should go for a second try! It was hard for me to tell him this. I don't know why i did tell him all that and now i wish i would have just kept hush about it. I can't seem to take the pain of him leaving to go back to his ex because now i love him! Also im confused, if he did say all those lovey dovey things to me earlier, why did he suddenly bring up his ex? If he says he loves me now, why does he want to go back to his past? Im even scared of telling him i love him now. Help!!
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reader, drhit1007  +, writes (8 April 2011):
There are many reasons why he could be acting this way. I saw my ex girlfriend a few weeks ago, and long story short, she and I have been talking and seeing each other (despite her current boyfriend knowing) more and more.To my point. Maybe for a while, he hadn't seen his ex, and they bumped into each other and decided to "catch up." They could have started texting again which may have fired up those forgotten feelings of her. Hope this helps.
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