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writes:dearcupid.org,Hi, I am a young teen and I am confused. I always have liked guys, but since the past year I have had a... atraction to girls. Not a girl, but just girls in general. But i still like guys.Now I'm really confused. I don't know if this means I'm bisexual. If I am I'm fine with that, but I don't want to keep it a secret.I think I might be, but I don't want to tell anyone. The last girl at my school that 'came out' was humiliated and she ended up moving. But there's another girl, a few years older than me, that is 'out' and she is really popular, still.Please help me. I dont want to be humiliated, and I don't want my dad to cut me off. He would, I think. But my mom would be okay with it. Just please help me understand what I am, and if I need to tell someone about it.Sincerely,b90219 Reply to this Question
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reader, b90219 +, writes (21 April 2011):
b90219 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay, I think I understand and I am Bi Sexual. It's okay with me because God made me this way, if that's how you beleive. I, on the other hand, am Non Donomenational which means I believe in God but am not a religion. To the person who posted anonymously: It's ok. God created you, and you're perfect because God doesn't make any mistakes. That's what my counsler told me when I came out to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): im 15 years old and latley ive been a little bit attracted to girls. i like guys but i THINK i might like girls too. i dont know if i do or not but im attracted some. at school i try to stay away from girls because of this problem until i know for sure. i need help to figure out wether im bi or not. im so scared because im a christian but my other friend that is a strong christian says its wron to be bi or gay and idk what to do please help.!
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reader, b90219 +, writes (7 April 2011):
b90219 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much, because I really am confused and don't know whether this means I am or not.
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reader, Kiryuu +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Well there is nothing wrong with liking both genders. i mean i went through this before. You might just be going into a phase. That happens to some poeple when they are a teenager like us. If you strongly think your bisexual then hey that's cool. But before you claim yourself as bisexual i would take some time too see if you really are attracted to both genders before deciding. Best of luck!
Your Auntie,
Kiryuu
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): there's nothing wrong with noticing attractive people male or female. I'm a female and I can still notice when a woman is particularly beautiful. But what it does is make me strive to be as beautiful as I can be, by staying well-dressed, etc.
Don't worry so much about it and it won't become a predominant thought. Let yourself be okay with noticing girls once in a while. You will be fine either way.
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