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I have a really embarrassing problem. Should I tell her?

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Question - (7 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, *sycho in love writes:

hey guys, i just wanted to know, is it normal for me to 'jizz' every time i snog my girlfriend

i want to tell her that it happens but im scared in case its a turn off, or makes things weird between us, or makes her go away from me

shall i tell her or not ?

and is this normal for a 15 year old ?

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A female reader, SweetSmoochy United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

SweetSmoochy agony auntYou're still really young, so it's normal that you haven't fully mastered all of the equipment. Even if you do have a full on orgasm, I'm sure with time, that will stop happening just from making out.

If you are just having some precum, that just means you are very, very turned on. Most girls actually get turned on when their guys are turned on, so it's not a bad thing or an abnormal thing.

Again, the older you get, the more control you will have. Just give it some time before you do anything past snogging and your control in that area will improve.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

person12345 agony auntDo you mean ejaculate (which is normally what jizz means) or precum? A bit of precum is perfectly normal, while actually ejaculating could be a bit of a problem in that it might be difficult to have sex. Precum is totally expected, there's no need to tell her, I'm sure she knows you're very turned on.

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (8 April 2011):

Partyboy123 agony auntHello,

I am 17, and I recently just started kissing for the first time (5 months ago), and its with my girlfriend, I was very nervous... Every time we would kiss or get really close, I would "precum", and it was quite annoying i might say... THIS IS COMPLETELY NORMAL... But, overtime, I got comfortable with making out and getting close to my girlfriend, and this stopped :) But I am sure it will come back other things happen. For now, you just have to deal with it, and you will quickly become comfortable with being close to her, and it will not be as bad... But when things get really hot and heavy between you in a good snog, it will most likely happen anyways, its in our nature!

Hope i helped,

partyboy123

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