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He is very romantic around me except when his friends are around. How do I deal with the mixed messages?

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Question - (7 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Any advice please?

I have been seeing this guy for the last 4 weeks. He is really really shy when we go out and his friends are there. He said he feels he will be judged by them. I know he has a lot going on at home. On occasions he goes funny when we are texting and will ignore me for days and always text me and apologise.

He constantly tells his friends he really likes me and Sunday just gone he had his arms around me and was kissing me all night. When I was out last night because his friends were there he barely spoke to me.

I'm confused I don't know where to go from here because he's ignoring me again when I suggested we go out? He had asked me out with his friends next week so he's sending me all sorts of messages.

Thanks for the help x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011):

Hey, I found out today he walked out from football last night and I know he has some things going on at home.

I asked him to go bowling with me and two of our mutual friends and he has totally ignored me. I don't get it.

Thankyou for the replies x

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A female reader, nester United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

If the guy you are with is treating you like that then it is time to move on.

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (8 April 2011):

Partyboy123 agony auntHey,

He probably feels uncomfortable in front of his friends, that is exactly like my girlfriend, in private she is all over me and I love it, in public, while her friends are around, she barely talks to me and kinda ignores me. Just accept it, he will warm up eventually, I am waiting for my girlfriend to warm up to it too...

hope i helped,

partyboy123

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