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writes:I'm 16; and haven't had my period, I'm worried because my boyfriend and i had sex 2 weeks ago and it didn't feel like he pulled up in in time and some of 'it' was inside of me; My period was only meant to come yesterday but i was just wondering if anyone can tell me how to make my period come early with out having to talk to a doctor.I'm worried because i will never abort or put up for adoption; its against my beliefs. I've just gotten my life on track, so i want to know how to make my period come faster. Thanks for helpKind Regards;
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Why are you allowing yourself to be pressured into sex? Any guy who does this to you is not a true love!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Mmmm, I am a bit concerned that you seem to think that looking after a child merely entails watching over them. Do you know how much they cost to raise? And do you honestly think at your age with only a basic level of education will be able to get a good enough job to pay for raising a child? You still live with your parents! You haven't got your own place for a child, I bet you can't even drive let alone have a car. How are you going to provide?
You are clearly very immature. Anyone who has any sort of basic sex ed knowledge knows you cannot make a period come more quickly. Secondly, if you were that worried about getting pregnant you could have got the morning after pill but you didn't. You don't know enough about sex to be engaging in it. You even have to say "it" instead of semen.
Nevermind you, please do your baby a favour and give it up for adoption. That way it can have a decent life with parents prepared for a child rather than a naive and irresponsible teenage who will bring it up in her parents' house and will always be relying on other people and the state to pay for it.
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reader, FLOWERKITTY  +, writes (6 September 2010):
if you are not pregnant get to a doctor and get on the pill. Do not have sex for at least a month so the pill can work. You should still uses a condom. I just found out I have HPV and i could have gotten it from my 1st lover, and it can show up 20 years later. (I have to get surgery on Friday to get rid of some bad cell that could turn into cancer) Also you could have gotten the morning after pill if you were worried about failed contraception.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Adoption is against your beliefs? Honey, adoption is a gift to people who have waited their whole lives for children. And you, at your age, can not properly raise one. Adoption would be your best bet- I consider it the ultimate gift of love. I am an adopted child.
If you honestly want to ruin your life and that of your childs, go ahead and stay away from adoption. If you want them to go to an older family who has spent years longing for and preparing for children who can give your child true happiness and return to you your youth, then so be it... It just seems incredibly selfish to turn away from adoption. You may say "oh. but what if they end up in an abusive home?" What kind of person who hates andf wants to abuse kids would sit around on a waiting list crying for a child of their own? None. And plus, they do an awesome job weeding out any losers.
Adoption is a blessing from a parent who loves enough to give life and happiness. Keeping the kid is the naive selfishness of someone who doesn't care what's better for the kid just as long as they have them. It disgusts me. I was given away at 3 months old, and I am so grateful and happy. I am alive, and I am happy. My birth parents made the best choice. My fiance's mom was 17 when she had him and she almost ruined his life. He got in trouble with the law, dropped out of school, etc etc. I am in college studying to be a psychiatrist and have never been in any trouble ever. So please, get over yourself.
And use some worthwhile birth control. Use the patch, the pill, the condom. Anything. The pull out method is the worst. There is a chance you are pregnant. No way to sped up your cycle, you just gotta sweat it out.
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (6 September 2010):
There is a very real chance that you could be pregnant. Withdrawal is the absolute WORST method of contraception there is. You need to go and get a pregnancy test done asap. If you are not pregnant DO NOT have sex again without a condom!!! If you are pregnant you seriously need to consider adoption or abortion because I don't think you have the maturity level to look after a child. I'm 36 and I find it extremely hard to be a mother at least some part of every week. Kids are demanding, rude, definant, selfish, mean little individuals that are very hard to like sometimes and I know I couldn't have been a mother as a teenager.
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reader, Brittany22 +, writes (6 September 2010):
There is no way to make your period come faster. If you are worried about getting pregnant, then you don't need to have sex or you need to get put on some type of birth control to prevent pregnancy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe are not having sex i was pressured into it kinda i felt bad. i can trake care of a child i have younger brithers and sisters i take care of them fine; they range from 8 months to 11 and i watch them daily and im there for babys at night. im just worried about telling my parents and my work; and whether i'll still have a job later on. well i have heard of some ways so i'll check them out. hopefuly its just late, due to the stress ive had lately.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (6 September 2010):
You are wondering if there's a way you make your period come faster and you would never have an abortion and you probably can't even take care of a child...a better question you should be asking yourself is if you are really responsible enough to be having sex?
First of all, no, there is no way to make your period come faster unless you're on an oral contraceptive and quit taking your pills which will likely cause your period to start sooner. Otherwise if you're not on the pill (which I'm guessing you're not since you're freaking out about your boyfriend not pulling out in time) there is no way to make your period come sooner.
Sorry to lecture you, but you sound really naive and you should know the answer to this especially if you're having sex and if you don't have the capability of raising a child then you really should just abstain or make sure you're on some sort of birth control or that he at least uses condoms. The pull out method is a good way to get pregnant, not a good form of birth control.
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reader, Newbie31 +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Honey, if your pregnant there isn't a thing you can do to make your period come faster. And if that's the case, having your period faster wouldn't even matter. Was ur boyfriend wearing protection? You tallked about him not pulling out in time, for a girl who has her life planned why wouldn't you take more precaution before having sex? I would wait five days tops of not receiving your period and then do a pregnancy test. Then take it from there.
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