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writes:Do you guys on DearCupid belive that people that are meant to be together always find their way back in the end? x x x Reply to this Question
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reader, --Nicki-- +, writes (6 September 2010):
--Nicki-- is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks again, strongfp. She lives in a different town from me so as much as I would love to, I can't have lunch with her. I will just see how it goes, I guess being friends with his mum again makes me happy.
I will let you know how things go on x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): hi Nicki, personally i feel, this whole soul mate thing is over rated. sometimes when we miss our season, we miss our season, and sometimes, just sometimes, for whatever reason , we get a second chance.
-LoveGirl
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reader, --Nicki-- +, writes (6 September 2010):
--Nicki-- is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your replies, much appreciated.
strongfp, my ex was not the man I ever imagined being the perfect guy for me but he was the man who loved me deeply but sadly I pushed him away when I was ill, I become too much and it broke us apart. I posted a question a few days ago, please read it, it might help you understand whats going on in my strange life (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ho-do-i-get-my-ex-back-with.html)
Once you have read my previous question, answer this please:
Maybe his mum adding me on Facebook is a way of getting him back? Things happen for a reason right... maybe she added me for a reason x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): I used to have an idealistic view like that in high school, but the world just doesn't work that way. I wish it did... If there was a benevolent force guiding two people inevitably towards their one perfect soul-mate then what about the people out there who never experience love in their lifetime and die old and alone, (yes, it happens). What if your "meant to be together" partner gets run over by a bus before you even meet them? Does that mean you will never have a chance at finding your soul-mate?
Depressing thought, but yeh, there's no such thing as "meant to be together" to begin with. Who you end up with and how happy you are together is completely on your shoulders.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): No, I think people don't always find their way back together. Some do, but I'm pretty sure for each couple that do there is lots that don't.
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reader, Blod +, writes (6 September 2010):
 I believe in fate but I also believe that you have to work for what you have. Life gives you opportunities, it's up to you what you do them. You might get a second chance with someone one day but you can't rely on that. Life is unpredictable, random and things can change drastically very quickly. So you shouldn't depend on what you believe and what 'could' happen. You have to do what you believe is right at the time.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 September 2010):
I never believe that people are 'meant to be together'. I believe that if you meet someone and something clicks, you can both work together to make a relationship work. But I think those who think 'they are meant to be together' more than frequently lose out because they don't see other signs that suggest they shouldn't be together.
If a couple break up, they break up for a reason. They can't just get back together on the basis 'they are meant to be'. No one should measure a relationship on that.
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