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writes:Hi...Is it right to love a person without seeing.?I mean we both are chatting for a quite a while.And we both love each other.We've planned to meet each other after some months..But am really scared whether it will succeed.Please give me some suggestions. Reply to this Question
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reader, Master of Disaster  +, writes (6 September 2010):
I had a LDR for quite some time and we also meet on the internet back then.
Moreover, I know other couples who are still in the same situation and their relationships work too.
You will still need a bit more time together to really get to know eachother and see if it's worth it. I do think everybody should decide for themself. If you guys really love eachother it would be a waste not giving it a try. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Please ignore all negative comments.People who have never been in a LDR always think negative and give negative comments.
Media only reports online frauds.Many people meet online and then they meet in person too.No one writes about these couples who are hppy when they do finally meet.
I met my gf online and were in a LDR for 2 yrs.We met after a year of online LDR.Meet up in person when both of you feel comfy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): yes it is right to love someone without seeing him as long as u guys were being honest to eashother about everything
believe me i ve been through that and actually im still in a LDR with my girlfriend
we met some times and it worked just fine we even more inlove with eachother now
anyway i think that yea it would succeed as long as ur bein honest
gd luck
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reader, Plain Jane  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Imagination draws a better picture than reality. Meet up first before making second move, there could be some negative personal traits one has physically which you may not find it comfortable.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Well, you still have to try. It's okay if it doesn't work out. Just be prepared that she may not be the same person you imagined her to be. What's wrong with meeting now? Go see if this is real. It's not wrong to love a person without seeing. It's just that she's in your head all the time. You get frustrated not knowing who she really is, and whether this would work out. You ask us to encourage this online thing. We won't do that for you. My suggestion is to ask her out the proper way. But flowers, go to a dinner, concert or a movie.
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reader, horsepower11411  +, writes (6 September 2010):
I wouldnt, because anybody could be faking and when you finally do meet them, they like murder you or sexually abuse you. I heard a story once how a police officer would pretend to be a young girl, and he met this guy and after a while the guy wanted to meet the "girl". So the police officer caught him with guns ropes knives and lots of obbusive things. So... dont put your trust in a stranger.
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