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writes:hi im in love with my best mate, weve been friends for 3 years now i wood do anything for himim gay and hes confused i fink , once ive got to know him hes told me he had a relashionship with a guy before thats the only one hes been in others with girls hes also got a kidd to his ex girlfriend.anyway i see him most wkds and we drink all the time thats when i will do sexual favours for him although i keep askin him to go the full way he hasnt though.im just so confused myself because hes not the sort ov ladd that is good with expressin how he feels about someone. so i cant ask him. he still talks about girls all the time so i realy dont no where i stand with him. its happenin weak in weak out and i just feel my deppresion is gettin worse because of it i just feel so down all the time when hes not with me.he has saw me with other guys before and he does get jealous i can just tell. so now ive found myself been single and not dating any guys because i love him so much. i just cant handle this any more please help me someone .... i need some good advice
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reader, i despratley need help +, writes (6 September 2010):
i despratley need help is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah it just happens when we are drinking a few times when weve been sober ,he knows find well what hes doing , i know for sure if i ask him he will say he just wants it to stay the way it is, and i suppose i wood just lett it happen im not a strong person that way and i cant say no. so i wld love either it if we kld be bfs if not then yh i wood settle for friendship without the favours coz its not doing me any favours here.. a love the ladd to much to just delete him out ma life so a just dont no what am goin to do !!!
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Boy oh boy,he sure does have you right where he wants you to be. Could he be talking about the girls just to see your reaction?
Try talking to him about how you feel when he keeps talking about the girls.
If he really feels for you,he should try to let you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): You said that you do sexual favors for him while you two are drunk, is that the only time? Is he fully aware while you are doing it? I aggree with you when you say that he might be confused. Why dont you just ask him? Its pretty obvious that he might like you. I wish you two the best of luck.:]
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