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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I know its a typical start to a story, but: Theres this guy at school that I really really like.I've liked him for quite a while now and I did tell him that I liked him but then he apologised and said he was in a complicated realtionship. He never said he didnt like me in that way though. He did carry on speaking to me like a friend but kind of kept his distance for a bit and we both sort of got on with our lives... Then he split up with his girlfriend. For a while nothing really changed but after a while he started talking to me, we got to know eachother a bit better and now he speaks to me all the time and he flirts with me (a lot) and it just seems like he likes me. We've been like this for a few months now, talking, flirting and stuff and lately he keeps saying things like "oh we should do that together" or "we should meet up" or whatever. We never actually end up doing anything though. I thought maybe he was joking around cos he never said any of it was for definite but if I ask him if he's being serious about something he seems a little offended and says "of course!!" but its alright him saying he wants to do things with me but its getting a bit annoying not actually going along with it. I really like him and I'd love to be his girlfriend one day but I have no idea how to get there..So I think Im trying to say, whats the next step from here? Thankz for any help .x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): Well next time he says we should meet up sometime, say "yes, how about a movie friday night?" :)
His reaction will let you know if he really is interested or if he is only saying the words. Good luck sweetie, mal
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