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writes:I really really REALLY need help..I've a boyfriend of 6 months right now, (we're both 19 and in college) and i really do love him. my family loves him and im always in his house. hes great to me and treats me like a princess. then i have this ex, we went out also for 6 months i was 16 and im truly serious when i say i was head over heels in love.. a part of me still is with him.. anyway.. we broke up in 2008 which is over two years ago and so much has happened since then.. we've kissed each others friends and there has been other drama like that which is now forgotten, but thats the main reason he would never get back with me, cos i hurt him, and it took him so long but hes now forgiven me.. even tho he hurt me too by ending it in the first place.. we've kissed throughout the years and i still feel the butterflies.. i hadnt seen him in a while and i saw him today in work.. we were talking for 20 mins and i was on a cloud all of today because of it. of course i feel so confused and bad aboutmy boyfriend. i was talking to the ex this evening after seeing him (he texted me first) and we ended up chatting for a while and he said he was confused about his feelings for me, then he basically admitted he liked me.. and that he doesnt know if we'l ever get back together.. im incredibly confused because now all i can think about is my ex and not my boyfriend, please please please tell me what to do, if you think i actually love my ex or what, i hate this :( thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Be a bastard or not that really depends on yourself. Sorry for being harsh but you are quite a bastard to your boyfriend now. Please learn to take every relationship seriously and not to seek for companionship then find a guy to love u
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 lol I don't think anyone can tell you what to do because that is based on how you feel.
it comes down to: which guy do you want to be with more.
This is a decision you're ultimately going to have to make on your own. Its about your feelings, no one else can tell you who you'd rather be with.
However, I'd advise making that decision sooner rather than later because you would be making someone wait and thats no good.
good luck, sorry I wasn't much help on telling ya which one to go for
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