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writes:my fionce told me he dont want to be with me any more. also he told me he dont love me any more and i have to follow my life. after that he did not called me , email me . even i did not see him online. may be he deleted my id. i could no see him online even if he is online. my cell phone is under his name. the day when he left me i told him to disconnect the phone. he told me he will do it. its almost one week ago he did not disconnect the phone? why he is not going disconnectt the phone? Reply to this Question
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reader, Plain Jane  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Probably he wants to monitor and check whom you call and contact. Man can be quite selfish sometimes, eventhough he doesn't want you anymore but he does not want any man to be near you. Get your own line and cut him out of you life if he is so heartless to hurt you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Why don't you take control, buy a new phone, move your contacts across, wipe the old phone and mail it back to him.
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reader, romany  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 He has probably not got round to it, he has been blatently honest with you, he's not given you any contact, and I know you would desperately like some sign that he is thinking of you, I truly think he has just forgotten, or not gotten round to it.
He'll remember once the phone bill comes thru.
You need to stop dwelling on things like this, its not doing you any favours, its over, you need to get yourself out and about, go out with your friends, keep yourself busy.
Goodluck.
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reader, Brittany22 +, writes (6 September 2010):
maybe he has a guilty conscious and he felt the best thing for him to do was to leave you and not have any contact with you because he cared for you and he didnt want to put you through the pain. and maybe the reason why he didnt disconnect the phone is because he is not ready to let go yet, and if he wants to tell you he knows how to contact you.
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